6 Lessons I Can Learn From My Single Self
Motherhood is beautiful and it's also one of the hardest things you'll ever do. Take a minute to learn from your younger self. 6 lessons I can learn from my single self.
Motherhood At It's Finest
Most women talk about the beauty in motherhood.The joys in pregnancy. Baby's first steps. Baby's first word. Watching your kids win awards at school. On the other hand, most women are ashamed to talk about the ugly side.Spit up on your favorite shirt. Sleepless nights. Tantrums. Miscarriage. Infertility.Motherhood is a beautiful, yet at times thankless job. In those moments, we need to take a lesson from our single selves.
6 Lessons I Can Learn From My Single Self
Get Dressed Up
Yes, even if you're just running to the grocery store. Throw on some lipgloss, a cute tunic and some leggings. Putting a little more effort into your appearance can change your outlook on your whole day.Don't believe me? Think back to the last time you got a compliment on your appearance (especially if you went through hell and high water to leave the house). I bet that made your day right?!Need some inspiration? Blast Beyoncé's All the Single Ladies while you get dressed!
Embrace Adult Interaction
This can be especially tough for stay at home moms with little kids. There's no shame in enrolling your kids in a half day Pre-K. Every mom needs a few hours of peace!Meet your girlfriend(s) for a coffee date at Chick-Fil-A or another kid friendly place.Talking to another adult gives you a break from Bubble Guppies & Paw Patrol.
Sit Down & Eat a Meal
You're probably standing up right now! Moms are on the go 24/6.We are running older kids to sports activities & music lessons, cooking dinner & assisting with homework & who knows what else.At dinner time while everyone else enjoys a meal, moms are often the ones standing. Take a load off, sit down & enjoy a meal with your family!
Take a Workout Class
When I was single, I lived for my weekly yoga, Zumba & kickboxing classes. I kept them up with my first child, but after adding a second baby to the family, the little extra time I had was spent either sleeping or catching up on housework.I miss the extra energy a work out class gave me.Now thanks to the ability to stream TV & YouTube, I often have a workout class in my living room.
Go Shopping & Buy Something For Yourself
When you were single, payday meant time for a manicure, lunch date with a friend, or a weekend getaway.Once you become a mom, every trip to the store ends up with things for your husband or the kids.Take some time to invest in yourself. Your family will thank you.
Go On a Date With Your Husband
Remember the thrill of finding the perfect date night outfit? It can be fun again! Don't wait until your anniversary to schedule a date with your other half.Your husband will thank you.
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