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50 Indoor Kid's Crafts and Activities

Are you looking for fun indoor kid's crafts and activities to keep your kids busy? Hoping to prevent them from going stir crazy in the cold months to come? Or maybe you're trying to keep your little ones busy while their siblings do school in the mornings?Whatever your reason these indoor kid's crafts and activities are perfect for you! They're going to keep your kids busy for hours and begging for more!  

Sending the kids outside to play is always a good idea! I don't know about your kids, but mine have ENDLESS amounts of energy! They wake up between 6 and 7 everyday and go non stop until their heads hit the pillow at night! Sending them outside means they get all of their wiggles and energy out WITHOUT breaking mommy's nice things inside.What do you do on the rainy days?Or the days where we're all stuck inside because of COVID-19? I'm looking around my complete mess of a house and realizing my h ouse won't survive this for much longer. This is exactly why I've compiled a list of super fun indoor kid's crafts and activities for the kids. Most of these include things you already have around the house so you won't need to order anything off of Amazon of brave a store!

50+ Indoor Kid's Crafts

Indoor Kid's Activities

Bollywood GakSticky Mural (Pictured)Spiderweb DiscoveryYogurt Silly PuttyFruit Loop SortingWashing Farm AnimalsTarget PracticeZipper BoardPeeling TapeFelt Tree StackingDinosaur TracksRainbow Loom Ringer Game (Pictured)Edible Water BeadsFelt Button ChainMixed Up Chameleon Felt BoardKinetic SandCloud DoughZen Toddler TrayColored Ice BinRainbow Sensory BottleMontessori FoldingRainbow BallPoking Sensory BinDIY Play Dough Tools (Pictured)Busy BoardButton SnakeTreasure ChestQ-Tips and Straws (Pictured)Pom Pom ActivitiesPool NoodlesGalaxy Slime (Pictured)Button TreesButton Sorting CraftsPeek A Boo BoardPlay Dough MatsThreading StationPom Pom DropRice Sensory Bin

50+ Indoor Kid's Crafts and Activities For Kids

Indoor Kid's Crafts

Drawing With CarsSticky FishDinosaur BonesDIY StampsFrozen Paint ArtCotton Ball PaintingUmbrellasSalt PaintingLeaf RubbingMonster Blowing PaintBinoculars Owl Bird Feeder

What is your favorite kid's indoor craft or activity?

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6 Reasons Little Kids Test Boundaries

6 Reasons Little Kids Test Boundaries

The moment the doctor tells you, "You're having another boy," you know things are about to get a little crazy.

Oh, and it definitely did. I have three boys, under five years old. As they get older, our stories about our day to day lives get more interesting.If you follow me on Instagram or Twitter, you've gotten to know my little family.You will definitely know my son Levi. I'm always posting pictures of his little mischievous antics. He's a riot. His nick name is Leviathan and if you were around him for any length of time, you'd understand. All of our crazy parenting stories involve him.

He greets people at our house half naked (Let me assure you I dress him about 15 times a day, but he always manages to "lose" his clothes).

He is always under the table with some contraband item (candy usually).

He randomly changes your name for an entire day (yesterday I was Queen Mommy).

He decides on a whim to cut our dogs hair.

He even wakes up at 5am to get a head start on it all.

It's because of him that I drink three cups of coffee a day. I have to keep up with him somehow! As he's getting bigger, I'm learning more about his character. Everyone always sees his mischievous and silly side, but people forget that their is so much more to him.People tend to think he needs us to raise our voice and be firm with him. They've told us he needs tough love and no grace. They make comments in front of him about how naughty he is. They tell us we're not parenting him right.What they don't see is that same little boy come up to me later that night and ask me to call him a good boy. While, you may think it's nothing, it is. He wants me to reaffirm that I love him and that I don't think he's a bad boy.There are so many rowdy little boys like mine in the world. Instead of understanding who they are, people label them the trouble makers or tell their parents they need to be put on ADD medication.Today I want to challenge all of you out there. Whether you're a parent or not. The next time you see a rowdy little boy, do not label him. Don't tell him he's bad because he wants to explore the world with his hands and push limits.6 Reasons Little Kids Test Boundaries

While you think he's disrespectful, he's learning what to say.

While you think he gets into everything, he's learning limits in his environment.

While you think he's can handle your "firm" words, he comes to mommy crying.

While you think he's being mean to his baby brother, he was trying to give him a big kiss.

While you think he's rude for not wanting to hug you, he is learning about his own emotions.

While you think he doesn't listen, he hears every word.

While you see some of the naughty things they do, you don't always know what they're trying to do. Instead of being tougher on them, figure out how you can help.I wish people would try to teach kids what they could do rather than what not to do. Yelling "NO" at a child doesn't teach him. Instead, teach him how to do it better.Kids need to be allowed to explore their environment and figure out how the world works. This means they will fail. They will cross the line. they will do it wrong. It's your job as the parent to teach them those limits.Children understand so much more if you encourage them to explore and set clear limits. Labeling a child as the "bad kid" will prevent them from being able to express themselves, learn about the world, have any self confidence, or want to learn how to do things differently. Encourage your children rather than label them.

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How Can You Teach Your Biracial Child To Be Proud Of Who They Are

 

Teaching Your Biracial Child To Be Comfortable In Their Own Skin

Being a child is hard. We always tease our kids about their "difficult" lives when they're throwing a tantrum over too much jelly on their sandwich, but hey. While the jelly dilemma is full of toddler drama, kids really do face some difficult challenges.

As a child, they don't know who they are and there is an inevitable realization for them. One day, they're going to wake up and realize they're different from their friends. As a biracial child or a child in an intercultural family, they're going to realize they don't like their friends or don't sound like them.

My husband went through his inevitable realization after he moved to the US from India...

While my mother in law was finishing nursing school, my husband lived with his relatives in India. After a few years and a nursing degree, he moved home to his parents. At the time, Telugu was his first language. He understood English, but he was more comfortable with Telugu as that was what he had been speaking for the last few years.

He was both excited and terrified to start school. He knew right away that he was different from his friends, but the idea of making new friends was all he could think about. 

On my husband's first day of school, he was asked to tell the class about himself. He started to tell everyone about his kukka (dog) when they erupted into laughter. They started teasing him and asking why he talked funny. 

In that moment my husband made a choice. He didn't want to be different than his friends and stopped speaking in Telugu in front of anyone, but his family. He even lost his accent as soon as he could. 

He was only four or five years old when this happened. As a little boy he knew that there was something different about himself and was embarrassed. As an adult, he still regrets that. He still speaks Telugu, but no where near what he could have if he had made a different decision and continued speaking it fluently.

As the parents of biracial children, it's our responsibility to teach them how valuable their differences are.  Those differences are what make up our beautiful children and we need to find a way to teach this to them. Here are 3 ways to encourage children to love themselves as the unique and biracial children that they are.

Teaching My Biracial Children To Be Proud Of Their Culture

Surround Your Child With Diversity

Your child needs to be surrounded with diversity. They need to understand that they live in a diverse world and not feel like the only biracial child around.[tweetthis display_mode="box"]The more diversity your children are exposed to, the more comfortable they are with themselves. #aiwtribe #mkbkids [/tweetthis]You can do this by showing diversity in their books, food, friend groups, school, movies, and more. This doesn't just mean their own culture. They need to be exposed to multiple cultures because it creates an environment of acceptance rather than intolerance.Plus, it's exciting! It's always fun to learn about new cultures and the more they learn, the more they're going to want to teach their friends!

Reject Negative Messages About Biracial Kids

It's easy for kids to start believing the messages that society tells them. Society tells them they aren't good enough. As their parents, it's your job to tell them they're amazing as they are every day. Build their confidence now so they can face negative racial messages later.The more comfortable your children are with themselves, the more likely they are to educate ignorant people rather than respond in anger. People are going to say mean and negative things. As much as you would love to prevent your child from dealing with it, there's nothing you can do. What you can do is teach them how to respond.Their confidence will help them to challenge the ignorant statement rather than let it make them feel bad about themselves.

Encourage Your Child To Share Their Culture With Their Friends

Parents need to bridge the gap between encouraging their children to be comfortable in their own skin to becoming proud of what makes them unique. This can happen by showing them how fun it is to share their culture with their friends.You can have a special night where you have your kids invite their friends over for a special feast that includes traditional meals, invite them to a local cultural event, or watch a family friends foreign film together.When a child is proud of something, they want to shout it from the roof tops! They can't wait to tell special people in their lives about it. Culture should be the same way. If you're child is still uncomfortable with the fact their different from their friends, you may have to be the one encouraging them.Start by taking your entire family to a fun event that shows off your culture. Ask them if they want to bring someone. If they don't it's ok. Give them time. The more common it becomes for your family to do these things, the more comfortable they'll become and the more likely they'll want to show it off to their friends.

How are you teaching your kids to be proud of what makes them unique?

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Toddler Approved Chores!

Are you looking for age appropriate chores for your family? This is a killer list of simple chores! Check it out and let us know your favorite!

Our Favorite Toddler Chores

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Trying To Keep Up With The Mess

Life with three little boys under six years old is messy to say the least. These little boys attract dirt. I don't know how they do it, but they do. They have so much energy and everything they do somehow causes a big mess.They go play in their room... dump out all the toys.They go outside to jump on the trampoline... sneak all the pillows onto it.They eat lunch... more ends up on their clothes and table than in their mouths.They go to the bathroom... somehow miss the bowl EVERY TIME... (Seriously boys are gross).You tell them to play nicely while you switch laundry over (or restart the same load in the wash)... they decide it's the perfect time to get into your makeup.I could go on and on. They live to make those messes. While it drives me crazy cleaning it up, I can't expect them to sit still all day and be mess free. The look on their faces when they build their trampoline obstacle course is priceless.I love seeing their little imaginations go, however it doesn't mean mommy and daddy have to clean it all up.

Ager Appropriate Chores For Kids

Chore Time!

After finally realizing the idea of keeping my house clean all day just wasn't possible, I knew I had to do something. I refused to spend my whole day cleaning up their monstrous messes while they watch PJ Masks on the TV.But were they ready for chores?Were they too young?No way! My husband and I sat down and made a huge list of chores that needed to get done around the house. We even took some of the bigger chores and broke them down into simple steps.If your kids are walking and talking, they can clean up a mess.You'll thank me when you're the one sitting on the couch, drinking a juice box, watching Moana as they clean up their mess in the living room.Chores are a great way to teach your children responsibility at any age. They quickly realize the messes they make need to get cleaned up in the end. Plus, no momma or daddy should be doing all the cleaning in the house.As a family, you are all responsible to to take part in keeping it up.

Age Appropriate Chores For Kids

Our Favorite Toddler Chores

These are a few of my family's favorite chores for our kids. I have a 2, 4, and 5 year old. Over the years we've had to find chores that work well for each of them and their ages.I even stopped by my son's preschool to ask the teacher for some ideas. They were great! Not to mention it spreads the load out at home.

How do you get your kids excited about chores?

Finding age appropriate chores is one thing, but getting your kids to actually do them is another. After a lot of trial and error (and a bit of yelling) we found the solution!We picked up a chore chart! This chore chart is great because you can change them out whenever you need to.Each week they work for something else. Sometimes they doing chores to work towards a family movie and other times we let them go and choose a small toy.They love looking to their chart to see how close they are to their goal! It's a great visual reminder and positive reinforcement. Every time they do a chore, they run to the board to put up a new magnet!

What is your favorite toddler approved chore?

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You Know You're A Parent If...

Being a parent is a whole new level of crazy.

It's exactly why you tend to surround yourself with other parents. You need people who just get it! You need friends that know exactly why you've worn the same shirt for three days in a row and don't judge you.

A parent is the only one who will truly understand how you feel because they've been there themselves! They instantly understand how crazy your morning is after your son decides to flush his apple down the toilet or when your kids unravel every toilet paper roll because they needed it to create a bad guy trap.

You Know You're A Parent If...

10 Feelings Every Parent Has Felt

In addition to our crazy stories there are also a few feelings every parent has experienced.

Disbelief

That moment you can't believe your kids would actually say that to you in public!

Pure Shock

You realize your house is too quiet and go into your kid's room to see what they've been doing....

Disgust

The moment your child wakes you up by putting the toilet brush in your face!

Pull Out Your Hair Frustration

When your kids decide to trash the house after you just spent the whole day cleaning!

Exhaustion

Whether you have a newborn or your kids just decide they have to wake up before the sun comes out every morning, you've felt this one!

I've Had Enough!

A parent can only listen to their kids arguing and fighting for so long!

Losing Your Mind

The feeling you get when you put your kids to bed and they ask for 100 drinks of water. "Can I have another drink? I'm so thirsty!?"

Justice

The fuzzy feeling you get after you tell your kids not to do something, they do it anyways, and realize they should have listened.

Fed Up

Spending a whole afternoon making dinner, your kids seeing what you slaved over, and refusing to eat.

Proud

The moment you realize your kids not the naughty at the park! Proud parent moment!!

You know you're a parent if... Finish the sentence in the comments!

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5 Reasons You Should Read Aloud To Your Child

As a parent, you know just how quickly life gets busy. Before you know it, your days are filled up with extracurricular activities, naps, meal prep, laundry, and more. However, you should always make time for one thing... read aloud to your child.I don't just mean a quick book before bed, I mean make the time to read aloud to your child throughout your day.Go to the library and stock up on some fun books to read as a family and start tonight!

5 Reasons You To Read Aloud Your Child

Promotes Communication

Reading out loud promotes communication between you and your child. As you read, you're going to be talking about the story and more. It helps to open the doors of communication which then leads to your child improving in their communication with others.

Improves Their Receptive Skills

As you read to your child, their developing their receptive skills. It takes a lot of work for a child to sit down, listen, and understand what's happening in a story. As they practice this skill they will be able to do it more often and for longer periods of time.The more you read aloud to your child, you'll notice they start doing better in school and public settings where they're expected to listen and follow instructions.

Builds A Special Bond Between You And Your Child

It means the world to your child when they see you making time for them. They see that they're a priority and thrive on your quality time together. As you read to them, it won't be easy to get distracted by your phone or your to do list either. It helps set you both up for success!As a parent, we've heard it before... They grow up before you know it! It's true. They won't always want you to sit down and read to them. Cherish this time with your children and soak it all up.

Encourages An Active Imagination

While you read to your child they will be picturing the story in their head. They'll want to follow along as they picture what the main character looks like, what their house looks like, and what how dinner smells. Their imaginations will explode with possibilities!A child with an active imagination will dream big! They'll imagine how great their lives will be and do anything they can to get there.

Exposed To New Vocabulary

Reading new books to your children each day means they're exposed to new vocabulary. Every book will introduce them to words they haven't heard before and they'll be eager to learn more. Studies have shown children that have parents reading aloud to them at home have 40 percent more vocabulary than those who don't.5 Reasons To Read Aloud With Your Child

Are you having a hard time keeping your child engaged while you read? Try these techniques.

Stop Frequently Throughout The Story

Be sure to stop frequently through out the story. If you read on and on for an hour, chances are they tuned you out. Stopping often helps you to make sure they're still listening and find out what they think about the book.

Ask Them Questions

As you stop, ask them questions. Ask them what they think about the scene, or who their favorite character is etc. Asking them questions help them to verbally think through the scenes and they'll be more likely to ask you questions if they don't know.

Move Your Fingers As You Read

As your children learn how to read, it's important to put your finger under the words. They see you following along with your finger and associate the words you're saying with the words on the page.

Limit Distractions

Be sure to set up a good reading space. This space should have minimal distractions so your child can focus all of their attention on the story rather than the TV in the background.

"The more that you read, the more things you will know. The more that you learn, the more places you'll go."

-Dr. Seuss

Are you reading with your child every day? If so what are your tips?

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Personalities You Can Find At A Sleepover

If you look carefully you can spot a few distinct personalities at every sleepover! Here is what they look like! 

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One of the biggest rites of passage for a child is their first sleepover. It's terrifying and exciting all at the same time. They desperately want to prove to their parents and friends that they're big and brave enough to stay somewhere else all night. All while they're inner child is begging them not to go! When they finally get brave enough to try they realize how fun sleepovers can be.As a parent we have an internal struggle of our own. We want them to have their independence and go for a night, but we see them as the little baby we held as an infant.Will the other parents know what to do if they get upset? Will they know what kind of cereal they like for breakfast?Then we finally get brave, let them go, and realize we all survived the night. Then they start having sleepovers every weekend. Some end up at a friends and some end up at yours. Sleepovers at your own house are a whole new ballgame. You no longer just have your kids that you have to take care of, but a friend lovingly entrusted you with theirs!As we've started to do more and more sleepovers at our house, I'm starting to see a trend. There are certain personalities that show up at every sleepover. If you're not careful two of these personalities can rub each other the wrong way and send your semi-crazy night into a full blown crazy house!

The Types Of Kids You Have At A Sleepover

There are always a few personalities you can spot at a sleepover and I feel like I can identify which one my kids are already.

The Rule Follower

The child who constantly reminds their friends of the rules. If one of their friends dares to break a rule, they will run to the closest adult to let them know about said offense. Or they take it into their own hands and try to keep everyone in line.

The Dare Devil

The child that just has to test the rules. They have to know what will actually happen if the break all the rules. If they jump on the couch from the coffee table, sneak their spaghetti onto my light colored rug, or shake up a pop bottle. Don't even think about leaving this child alone during the night!

The Silent Instigator

The child who's too scared to be naughty on their own so they try an "encourage" their friends to do all the things they wish they could. They end up flying under the radar because they don't ever get caught in the act. This is the one you have to watch out for.

The One Upper

The child that has to top everyone else's stories or things they do throughout the night. This is the kiddo that can cause a parent's night to get out of control because it's never good enough. They have to be the bravest, toughest, and coolest kid of the night.

The Crier

The child you have to watch for at the end of the night. When they start putting on their jammies and realize they truly are staying the night the tears start coming. They start asking for mom and dad. Then they start trying to figure out when they get to go home. If you're not careful this can end up with mom and dad driving to your house in the middle of the night. Distract. Distract. Distract.

The Angel

The child you wish you could keep! They listen to you all night while having fun with their friends. They tell you what a fun parent you are and beg to come to your house all the time! You may even throw in a few "well intended" comments to your own kids about how much their friend likes you and how much nicer they are to you than they are.

The Sleeper

The child that always falls asleep before everyone else. They try their hardest to stay up late with their friends, but they can't help it. They fall asleep during the movie and on the couch during the game. This is the kid that usually ends up with pictures on their face or shaving cream...img_5782-jpg

Which personality best described you at your own sleepovers as a kid?

I was definitely the rule follower. I was way too scared to break any rules, much less encourage other kids to do the same thing. Now my oldest son is exactly the same! He's the one yelling at his friends for whispering after they all go to bed and reminding them of the house rules. As his mom I'm proud of him, but as his friend I have to remind him to live a little sometimes!My husband on the other hand was the dare devil. He always had to do something crazy and dragged his friends along with him! The best was visiting his house while we were dating and going downstairs to see little holes all over the basement wall. I asked him how it happened and he said it was an air-soft gun war he had with his friends... He's definitely getting it back as a parents because our three year old is our little dare devil! He's always looking for something crazy to do!

Which personality fits you or your kids?

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The King Of The Wild Things

Where The Wild Things Are Party

The King of the wild things.

Over the years, I've begun to develop an interesting relationship with birthdays. On one hand you're celebrating all the accomplishments someone has had throughout the year. It's a time to encourage that person and let them know how much you care. On the other hand it means you're getting older and as a parent it can mean your little baby is one year older.A little more independent.One year more grown up.One year closer to not needing mommy and daddy as much.Oh boy. When did I become such a sap!? I sat there staring at my little Lucas all day yesterday asking myself where the time has gone. Yes, I became that parent. I fully admit it and I know I'll be in the same mood, asking myself the same question on every birthday my kids have in the future.My husband and I have gone through so much with our little boy over this last year and look at him! You'd never guess! He is one of the bravest and strongest little two year olds I know which is why his birthday theme was easy to choose.He's my little wild thing.

Where The Wild Things Are Cake

Where The Wild Things Are

Every night my kids and I have the same routine. I tuck them into bed, kiss them, tell them just how much I love them, and then we have an adventure. We choose one of our favorite books and go off into a different land in our imaginations. Lately, it's been the same adventure over and over again. Not that my kids mind at all. They find new things to think about and their obsession for this book grows deeper with each page.

Where The Wild Things Are.

I loved this book when it fist came out, but as a mom it's pure gold. I have three little wild things of my own and I love reading it to them. The relationship between the mom and the little boy is beautiful. The little boy runs wild throughout the beginning of the book and ends up taking it to far with his mom. She sends him to bed without his dinner and he becomes angry.He gets so angry that his room turns into a jungle and he ventures off to the land of the wild things and he becomes their king. He gets to be as wild as his heart desires and realizes it's not enough. He gets lonely and wants to go back home. He decides he's done living with the wild things and ventures back home. When he gets back to his room he's reminded just how much his momma loves him with a warm bowl of soup.The mom was angry with her son too, but at the end of the day she couldn't let him go to bed without a full belly and she wanted to show him how loved he was.There are so many times I get frustrated with my own wild things, but at the end of the day their mine. I love their wild antics and their imaginations. Especially my little two year old's imagination. Everything is so much more unique to him. He finds something fun and beautiful about everything he sees.

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Our Wild Birthday Party

Yesterday, we celebrated Lucas's 2nd birthday and turned our home into the land of the wild things!I was just as excited as my boys were to come up with fun decorations for the party and see where our imaginations could take us. The piece I was most eager about was the cake. Growing up, I remember my aunt making the most adorable cakes! She even passed her skill onto her kids. I had no idea how hard it could be until I tried making my first cake!Thankfully I've learned a few things through trial and error. I want my kids to remember my cakes as they grow up and be able to say...My mom makes the best cakes! I was up to the task for Lucas's party this week! After a lot of brainstorming and scouring Pinterest for inspiration, I came up with the perfect idea.

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The cake was surprisingly easy to make! Here are a few steps if you'd like to recreate it for your own wild thing.

Chocolate Curls (Tree Bark)

Combine 1 bag of chocolate chips and 1 TBS coconut oil in a microwave safe bowl. Put the bowl in the microwave for 30 seconds at a time and stir. Continue until your chocolate is completely melted.Spread the melted chocolate on a piece of parchment paper. Make sure the chocolate is spread evenly. Then roll up your parchment paper and put it in the fridge until it's cooled. When the chocolate hardens unroll it and voila. You have chocolate curls.

Assembling The Cake

Assemble your cake and ice it with chocolate frosting. Cover the outside of the cake with your chocolate curls. When the cake is covered with chocolate curls, dust it with cocoa powder.Cover the top with graham cracker crumbs. I added a bit of green food coloring to make it look like moss.

Where The Wild Things Are Party

Where The Wild Things Are Party Snacks

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How To Fight Jet Lag Naturally

Traveling with a family is tough work. My husband and I have taken our kids on dozens of trips around the US and each one is equally difficult, hilarious, and exhausting. Even the simple trips can be intense! My last trip with the kids can be summed up in a few words... two spilled Starbucks drinks, a crying baby, an exhausted momma, and jet lag! Jet lag makes it all worse. Even just a few hours can throw kids into a tail spin for weeks! Here are a few ways you can fight jet lag naturally so you can actually enjoy your trip! 

How To Fight Jet Lag Naturally

  

Tips For Fighting Jet Lag

Your first reaction when you want to fight jet lag is to load up on the caffeine. Or maybe you think sleeping all day will help... The truth is both of these will only make your jet lag exponentially worse. The best thing you can do is fight jet lag naturally.How To Fight Jet Lag Naturally

Stick To Your Normal Routine

One of the most important things you need to do when traveling is stick to your normal schedule. It's easy to think you want to let things like nap and bed times slide, but it's the worst thing you can do. It's hard enough to train your body to stick to the new times, but sticking to the same routine during the day will help your body adjust. Timers are your best friend when you want to fight jet lag naturally.

Try To Adjust On The Plane

If you're going to encounter a large time difference, try and adjust on the plane. Whether that means staying awake the whole time or sleeping for the entire flight. Do your best to get it all done and over with while you're flying to you're not doing it your first day on your trip.

Eat Before You Go To Bed

One of the biggest reasons people end up waking up in the middle of the night when dealing with jet lag is that they're hungry. Their stomachs wake them up so they can get something to eat. Be sure to have a snack before you go to bed to make sure you don't wake up hungry.How To Fight Jet Lag Naturally

Keep Your Body Moving During The Day

When you need to fight jet lag naturally you need to avoid things like caffeine. The problem is your body starts to get tired and all you want to do it go lay on the couch. Instead you need to keep your body active. Schedule things like site seeing and different activities during the day.

Limit Naps

When you're exhausted all you want to do is take a dozen cat naps throughout the day. The problem is that your body is trying to figure out what time it is and if you sleep throughout the day it's going to take even longer to acclimate. Resist the urge to nap during the day.How To Fight Jet Lag Naturally

Keep Your Room Dark While Sleeping

After doing your best to stay awake all day, you're more than happy to lay your head down on the pillow at night. The problem comes the next morning. The moment the sun comes out your body thinks it's time to wake up. Even if it is only 5 in the morning. The best thing you can do is to set up a dark room to sleep in. It will help trick your body to adjust to the new time.

Wouldn't You Rather Fight Jet Lag Naturally?

Whether you're dealing with a 1 hour time difference or 13, it's tough on your body. It takes it time to adjust but you can fight jet lag naturally. You don't have to load up on caffeine and energy drinks to try and keep your eye lids open. In the end caffeine only makes you feel like garbage on top of being wiped out.By being willing to fight jet lag naturally, you can spend your trip feeling great and enjoying your new surroundings rather than trying to play catch up on sleep the whole time!

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40 Things Kids Think About During Nap Time

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40 Things Kids Think About During Nap Time

Nap time used to be my favorite time of the day.It meant a relaxing break from the chaos of the day. Now, my two big kids think they're too big for nap time. Instead of happily going to bed like their baby brother, they try to get out of it the whole time!Not to mention they act like they've never had a drink of water in their lives.I get tempted to let them drop their nap, but they are so much happier after they finally give in and take one. I've always wondered what goes through their minds while they lay in their beds.What is it that keeps them up for SO LONG!Here are a few things I'm sure go through my kids heads when they're trying to take a nap! What would you add to the list?

  1. Ooh I forgot to get a drink of water.

  2. Hmm.. I don't think I have to pee, but I'm going to try anyways.

  3. Mom said I cant go to the bathroom during nap time anymore!

  4. What if I really do have to pee!?

  5. I'm thirsty.

  6. Bedtime is so boring!

  7. I'm too big to take naps!

  8. I'll never fall asleep.

  9. Only babies take naps.

  10. I'm really thirsty.

  11. Where is that toy I played with yesterday?

  12. Mom's making me so mad!

  13. Why can't I just get up!

  14. Mom's up.

  15. Mom's not taking a nap.

  16. I'm so thirsty!

  17. I have to pee!

  18. Oooh. Mom got really mad!

  19. I should go down and tell her I love her.

  20. She didn't want to hear it!

  21. She's so mean!

  22. I'M THIRSTY!

  23. I hate naps!

  24. I haven't eaten all day!

  25. Mom said I just had lunch and I think she's lying.

  26. I'm starving.

  27. I'm SO THIRSTY!

  28. Why won't she just let me get up!

  29. OK. I'm going to ask one more time.

  30. Mom's not taking a nap because she's not a baby!

  31. I'm not a baby!

  32. I haven't had anything to drink in SO LONG!

  33. I should see if my brother is sleeping.

  34. HE'S READING BOOKS!

  35. MOM!!!!!!!!

  36. I'm never getting out of here!

  37. I hate this room!

  38. This is why I never play in here!

  39. Mmmm. I'm getting really sleepy...

  40. I'm thirs........ zzzzzzzzz

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Raising Grateful Children: Thank You For My Siblings!

Have you ever wondered if you're raising grateful children? If your children are grateful for the people they love in their lives? Here are a few things you can start doing today to make sure you're raising grateful children!Raising Grateful Children: Thank You For My Siblings!Raising Grateful ChildrenI don't know what it is, but have you ever noticed that every time you need to make an important phone call your kids go crazy?This afternoon I had to call my health insurance company. I only had an hour before they closed and I figured I would try and call while my two youngest were napping. They usually answer pretty quickly so I thought I could get it all done before my boys woke up.After about 15 minutes on hold I realized quick wasn't in the cards for today.Then my three year old woke up and thought it would be helpful to wake up his baby brother. I went up there, phone up to my ear, to grab them. Baby Luke's crib was full of toys along with a 3 year old big brother.They were both grinning ear to ear and loving their mischievousness!I ended up letting them destroy their room so I could finish my supposedly "quick" phone call. I have to admit, I love that they're getting closer.It's one of the reasons I wanted to have my kids so close together. I knew it would come with it's own set of craziness, but it would be worth it. I wanted my kids to be close.I was worried in the beginning because all my boys would do was fight! My husband and I joked about their love-hate relationship, but deep down I was worried they wouldn't be as close as I hoped. Now that they're a bit older, I'm starting to see how deep their brotherly bond really is.Raising Grateful Children: Thank You For My Siblings!They all look to each other for approval, wanting to make sure their brothers think they're doing something amazing. The best is while we sit down for meals. They start telling jokes and instantly look to make sure their brothers are laughing at them! Even Baby Lucas joins in! No one knows what he actually says, but they love that he's trying and think his' hilarious!I want them to continue getting closer as they get older.I want my kids to be best friends.Raising Grateful Children: Thank You For My Siblings!

3 Ways To Ensure You're Raising Grateful Children

This month, I want my kids to take a moment to be grateful for their siblings. The more they learn what they love and value in each other, the closer they'll be.

Lead By Example

If we want to teach our kids to be grateful, we have to start by being grateful ourselves. Kids are always looking to their parents to figure out what to do. If they can see us being grateful and loving to those around us, they'll follow suit.Parents can model gratitude by verbally expressing it, sending thank you notes, and even giving little gifts.Remind your kids how important to be thankful for people they love and talk to them about it. Let them know why you're thankful for them!

Create A Habit

Instead of being grateful once a year on Thanksgiving, make it a year long routine. Create a habit in your home to talk about what your thankful for. Whether it's over dinner each night, as you tuck your kids in bed, or on the way home from a busy day.It doesn't matter when you do it, just do it. Create those conversations early on so they become normal.Raising Grateful Children: Thank You For My Siblings!

Sibling Dates

As your kids watch you leading a grateful life and a let it become a habit in their own, it will quickly start to affect their relationships with their siblings.You can foster their relationships with each other more by letting them have sibling dates!Do something fun and take them to a movie! Let them choose what they want to see together and their snacks! Or let them come up with their date night on their own. Encourage them to have fun thinking up the whole night and what they're going to do.The most important thing you can do as a parent is to help your children build strong relationships with each other.These relationships are going to last for their entire lives. By helping your kids learn how to be grateful for each other, you're making sure they have a strong foundation that can last through it all.

What tips do you have for helping your kids be grateful for their siblings?

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Multicultural Corner: Raising Global Citizens

Multicultural Corner: Raising Global Citizens My husband and I made the decision to homeschool our kids for so many different reasons. We both loved the idea of having flexibility to fit around my husband work schedule, the ability we would have to teach them the way they learned best, and the fact that we could choose their curriculum.Since we've started we've been able to do studies on butterflies, nature, and the ocean. I love seeing how excited my kids get when we start a new study. They want to soak everything in and they always have so many questions. My favorite part about homeschooling has been our discussions!We cozy up on the couch and talk about our study for the month. Often times it goes off on tangents where we daydream actually experiencing what we're learning about. Which of course leads to giggles and silly kids.I will always cherish these conversations with my kids. I do everything I can to teach my children that I'm there for them. I want them to know they can talk to me about anything. This is why there are no silly questions in our house. I'll be teaching the kids about butterflies and my three year old will ask me if he'll ever become a butterfly himself...I love it. I love their little questions.As a mother, it's my privilege to be able to teach them about the world and everything inside of it.[tweetthis display_mode="button_link"]As a mother it's my privilege to be able to teach them about the world and everything inside of it. #aiwtribe[/tweetthis]Multicultural Corner: Raising Global Citizens

Our Very Own Multicultural Corner

Last month, I sat down and tried to brainstorm different ideas on how I could get my kids excited about our diverse world. I want them not only to be raised as biracial children loving two cultures, but as global citizens who love the whole world.Then it came to me. Multicultural corner. Every month we're going to focus on a new multicultural resource. The goal of this is to get our kids excited about the world and to learn more about different cultures.Along with our multicultural resource we're going to do hands on activities, prepare delicious food, and share what we learn together.Multicultural Corner: Raising Global Citizens

Mixed Me

This book has been an amazing addition to our little library. It does a wonderful job of teaching kids the beauty in their biracial identity. There aren't many books out there that discuss multicultural families and Tay Diggs has taken his own experiences in teaching his son and has given us a great resource.Mixed Me walks us through the life of Mike. He is a little boy trying to figure out his biracial identity. Throughout the book he asks questions about his parents and himself. He wants to understand how he can be a blend of both of them when he looks so different.While my kids and I read this book I could see the excitement in their faces. My oldest son instantly felt a connection between the Mike and himself."Momma, he's like me!"Multicultural Corner: Raising Global Citizens

How You Can Join Multicultural Corner With Your Kids

Whether you're homeschooling your kids or you just want to create opportunities to encourage them to learn about the world around them, join us each month for multicultural corner! We will post new activities and ways for your family to join us!This month, we're starting off by talking about biracial identities. Pick up your own copy of Mixed Me from the library or get your own. We can't wait to hear the conversations it gets going with your family.

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The Legacy My Husband Is Leaving For His Kids

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The Legacy My Husband Is Leaving For His Kids

Today is my husband's birthday and we're spending it celebrating him and everything he is to our family. He woke up this morning to three anxious little boys and homemade birthday cards! My boys love their daddy to the moon and back and couldn't wait to wake him up with birthday wishes!Being a dad is hard work. You're always trying to figure out how to be exactly what your kids need. You want to make sure you're being a great example while also inspiring them to be world changers.It's a lot to carry on your shoulders.Through it all, my husband is leaving a legacy for his children. This legacy is going to teach them what it means to be young men, a dad, and a husband.img_3645

3 Lessons My Husband's Legacy Will Teach Our Children

How To Take Care Of Your Family

I talk a lot on the blog about my traveling husband. He's gone frequently throughout the year for work, but what you may not know is that it's hard. Part of the traveling is fun and exciting. He's been able to experience so much because of his job, but he also has to miss out on a lot.However, his kids know how hard he works for them. He even books his tickets so he gets back in the middle of the night so we all get to wake up with him in the morning.My husband is always taking care of us. He works hard to provide for us and always makes sure we're taken care of.10655228_632520762204_4910289195184831399_o

What It Means To Be Vulnerable

As a man and father, you want to teach your kids to be strong. My husband has taught his kids to be strong, but more importantly he's taught them how to be vulnerable.My husband has shown my kids what it means to be imperfect. They know they don't have to do anything to prove themselves to him. All he wants is for them to be real and honest with him.If they're feeling scared, he holds them.If they're feeling discouraged, he empowers them.He's done this by being vulnerable with them. He's the first one to let them know if he's feeling down discouraged. This not only brings them closer together as father and son but will help them as they grow into the men they're becoming.They'll bring this vulnerability into their friendships and even their future marriages.

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How To Love Their Future Wife

My husband and I got married when we were really young. We've grown up together over the last seven years. Our marriage has been anything but perfect. We've had our struggles and out triumphs. Throughout it all, he's always loved me.My boys have been able to be blessed with parents that truly love each other. They've never had to worry if we're going to stay together because even while we're fighting, they know we love each other.My husband has shown my kids what it means to truly love their future wife. Love is a feeling and choice. My sons have seen my husband love me through every season without fail.They've seen him love me, even when I'm being crazy.They've seen him love me in the midst of scary times.I know they've seen it because it even affects how they love me, their mom.

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My husband has truly changed our family. He's loved us without fail every day, he's chosen to be vulnerable with us, he's always taken care of us, and he's the reason our kids will grow up to be amazing fathers.

Let's take a moment to celebrate the fathers in your life. Remind them how much they mean to you and what they've done for your family.

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Potty Training: Top Methods And Tips

Top Tips and Methods for Potty Training

Potty Training

The moment in parenthood, we all dread.Potty training means double the amount of dirty clothes, constantly keeping an eye on your child to make sure they don't pee everywhere, and frantically looking for bathrooms in public before you become "that" family...I love hearing from other parents to find out how they potty trained their children. Some parents use the same techniques all the way through and others do it different each time.I potty trained my oldest at 18 months, my middle child at 2 and a half, and my youngest... Well, I haven't gotten to it until now.I potty trained my oldest at a young age because he literally asked me to get him big boy underwear and to use the potty like daddy. By the time my second child started showing the signs that he was ready, I was pregnant with my third and tried to hold him off on the whole process. He had other plans.Now, my youngest is practically begging me to potty train him. You don't believe me? All week he has been coming up to me.. naked.. diaper in hand. Then he goes on to tell me he's poo (the word he uses for both deeds).It doesn't matter what type of outfit he's wearing. He manages to get it and his diaper off and proudly finds me to show off his accomplishment.

Potty Training: Top Methods And Tips

3 Potty Training Methods

The first step to potty training your child is to choose the method that fits your life and child best. Here are the top three methods around.

The Child Oriented Method:

This method is designed to let your child decide when they're ready. Watch for signs that they're ready to be potty trained.When you see the signs, you begin the potty training process. First start out with your child, fully clothed on the potty. Get them used to the potty without the pressure of using it. As they get more comfortable, have them sit on the potty while they're wearing a pull up. Then encourage them to sit on the potty without a pull up.As they get more comfortable with the potty, they will start to try using it when they're ready.The slow process is designed to encourage your child to take it all at their own pace. If they start to resist the process, this method suggests you take a break.While this method can provide a positive experience for your child, it also ends up taking much longer. It can last anywhere from a few weeks to a year.

Potty Training: Top Methods And Tips

The Weekend Method:

This method has become increasingly popular over the years. When you see a few signs that your chid is ready to be potty trained, find a weekend that you can completely devote to the process. Clear your schedule and get ready.This method takes about three days to complete. It's much messier than the other two, but effective.The morning of day one, start pumping your child full of fluids. You want as many opportunities to practice as possible. Then strip your child naked. It's important to keep your child naked on the first day so they can feel what it's like to need to use the potty.Take them to the potty every thirty minutes and have them try. If you catch them in an accident, immediately take them over to the potty and have them sit down. Remind them to go to the potty if they feel like they have to go.Day two is a little different. Today your child can wear underwear. The routine is still the same. Pump them full of fluids and take them to the potty on a schedule.Day three is the last structured day of the method. By this time, your child knows they need to use the potty and has has plenty of experience with it. Today, your child can wear pants and be fully dressed. Day three is more of a maintenance day. Watch out for accidents and continue the routine.My husband and I used this method for our kids. It worked for our oldest two and will be the same method we use for our third. It's crucial to completely clear your weekend. It helps to make sure you're completely focused on the process and catch accidents before or during.

Potty Training: Top Methods And Tips

The Potty Party Method:

This method is also one of the quicker ones.Get your child a doll that "goes potty." Introduce the doll to your child and explain that the doll us becoming a big kid and only uses the potty now.Spend the morning teaching the doll how to go in the potty. Make sure you let your child help teach the doll so they can understand the concept as well. Let the doll have a few "accidents" and use it as an opportunity to talk about what happened.Before your child begins their potty training, find the biggest incentive possible and use it to encourage them to use the potty. Once your child successfully uses the potty, get all of their family and a few friends to come together and celebrate.This is their moment. The party is more of a commitment they're making. They now know how to use the potty and as a family, you're committing to the process. During the party, take a moment to gather all of their diapers and throw them away. Then they can put their underwear in their drawer.The potty party is a 1-2 day process, so you will still be doing a fair bit of maintenance afterwards. However, by throwing all of the diapers away, you're locked in!

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Surviving Sleepovers With GoodNites

Surviving A Sleepover: The Bedwetting Struggle

Surviving A Sleepover: The Bedwetting Struggle

Sleepovers can be a monumental moment in a child's life. They look forward to and may even dream about their first sleepover at a friends house. It's a sign of them getting older, becoming brave, and doing something on their own.While day dreaming about their first sleepover, they may think about the movies they'll watch, get excited about staying up all night (even though they'll likely fall asleep much sooner than they think), and all the fun they're going to have. They're eagerly awaiting the moment a friend asks them to a sleepover and until then they're going to dream up the perfect sleepover.What about the child that fears being asked for their first sleepover?Instead of daydreaming they end up getting nightmares over what could happen. All they can think about is...What happens if I wet my bed during the sleepover? What will my friends think?Nighttime bedwetting is much more common than kids realize. It's not something they can be trained out of, rather their bodies need to mature. The brain is supposed to get triggered when an individual's bladder is full. In some cases, the brain doesn't get the message which results in them wetting the bed.This can make things like a sleepover terrifying. Children that struggle with bedwetting get scared to leave the house in fear of what can happen. Instead of missing out on sleepovers until the problem is resolvedInstead of missing out on sleepovers until the problem is resolved there are a few things you can do as a parent to make your child feel confident they'll survive their first sleepover. 

Surviving A Sleepover: The Bedwetting Struggle

 

What Parents Can Do Before A Sleepover

Positive Reinforcement

It can get frustrating cleaning your child's sheets every morning. However, the worst thing you can do is let your kids know how frustrated you are. Bedwetting is emotionally difficult for a child and they need to know their parents are in their corner. Instead, reinforce them when they do have a dry night. Let them know how proud you are.

Develop A Routine

Help your child to develop a nighttime routine that encourages them to use the bathroom before bed. By limiting fluids after dinner and having them empty their bladder, you decrease their chances of an accident.

Encourage Your Child

When a child struggles with bedwetting they can start to feel bad about themselves. Remind them that bedwetting isn't due to them not doing something well enough. Instead, it's their brain not getting the message from their bladder. As their bodies mature, their brain will learn to get the message. It just takes time.

Surviving A Sleepover: The Bedwetting Struggle

 

Sleepover Survival Tips

Talk To Your Child

Before a sleepover, ask your child what they're worried about. It's important for them to be open and let you know their fears so you can develop a plan to put them at ease.

Make A Plan

The biggest fear for a child who struggles with bedwetting is what do I do if I wet the bed? Huggies GoodNites provide confidence for children. Pack a pair of GoodNites underwear in your child's bag. Before they go to bed, they can put them on. GoodNites underwear has an absorbent layer inside that will prevent them from soiling their bed. When they wake up the next morning, they can discreetly go to the bathroom and put the underwear in the garbage.

Talk To The Child's Parents

Before the sleepover, you can discuss your child's bedwetting with their friend's parents. Then they will be able to help the child if needed. It also provides an added layer of confidence for you child because they know they will have help if they need it.

Let Them Decide If They're Ready

At the end of the day, your child has to decide if they're ready for a sleepover. Don't push them if they aren't ready. They will let you know when they feel confident enough to take the step. In the meantime, go over your plan and do your best to help them solve any issues they may have with going to their first sleepover.

Surviving A Sleepover: The Bedwetting Struggle

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Surviving A Sleepover: The Bedwetting Struggle
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My Multicultural Family: The Olympic Summer Games

The Olympic Summer Games
As a mother in a multicultural family, I'm always looking for new ways to teach my kids about the world. My husband and I work very hard to blend the East and the West in our family. The more you blend cultures, the more you realize how important it is to teach your kids about the world around them.My kids have developed a deep love for their mixed heritage. I didn't expect that love to grow as quickly as it did. My oldest son loves sharing about his culture with everyone around him. Whether it's how to eat Indian food with his hands or his love for our holiday traditions, he's always talking about it.I don't want my children's passion to start and end with their own culture. I want them to see the beauty in the world around them and have a desire a desire to learn more. The more we teach our kids about the world around them, the more comfortable they'll be with themselves.What Can The Olympic Summer Games Teach My Multicultural Family?The 2016 Olympic Summer Games are right around the corner. It's a huge opportunity to teach your family about the world!Multicultural Kid Blogs just came out with their Summer Games Activity Pack! This pack is truly in a league of its own. It's 100 pages of history and activities! When your kids have finished going through their Summer Games Activity Pack they'll know about the nations with the most medals, famous Olympians, Olympic sports, delicious recipes, and so much more!This year we decided to throw the Olympic Games into our homeschool routine. This activity pack has been a huge resource for us because it's fun for all three of my kids. I don't know about you, but I struggle to find activities that work well for all their ages. This activity pack is great for any age!What Can The Olympic Summer Games Teach My Multicultural Family?This week we pulled it out and started to learn about the different nations. While my kids were coloring the maps, I read through the history portion. At first, I thought it was more for my sake. They get to color and I get to think they're learning about the world. I was greatly surprised when my five and three-year-olds continued to stop me while I was reading to ask questions. They were so intrigued to hear more about popular sports and find out what the Olympic games are all about.Whether you're homeschooling your kids like us or you want to teach your kids about the world, the Summer Games Activity Pack is perfect! Here is a little recap of all the things it offers!

What To Expect In Your Summer Games Activity Pack

History Of The OlympicsInformation On The Olympic GamesOlympic Medal TrackerColoring PagesRecipes For Each NationActivity PagesYou can even take it up a notch and host your own Olympic Games at home! Take what you learn from the packet and make your summer one to remember!

Get your Summer Games Activity Pack here!

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10 Reasons To Remember Why You Love Your Dad This Father's Day

10 Reasons To Remember Why You Love Your Dad This Father's DayA Few Things To Remember This Father's Day

During Mother's Day, we talked about things children shouldn't expect from their moms. I mean, come on... It's Mother's Day and our kids expect us to wash their clothes and make them dinner... Nope. It's our one day to be selfish!With Father's Day around corner, I thought it would be fitting to talk about all the reasons we love the dads in our lives. Dads get a lot of smack through out the year, but we couldn't do it with out them.I grew up with many different father figures in my life until my mom married my amazing dad when I was ten. It taught me just how important my dad is in my life. He taught me more than I could ever have imagined and showed me what it meant to put your family first.Now, I'm able to see my husband be an amazing father to my three boys. I love seeing what he teaches them and that they get to have such an amazing leader in their lives.

10 Reasons We Love Our Dads

1. They Put Up With All Of Their Kid's Shenanigans!

Just take a second to remember all of the crazy things we put our dads through as kids.

2. They Encourage Us To Be Adventurous And Are Always There To Keep Us Safe.

They always encouraged us to be adventurous, but were always there to catch us if we fell in the end. Or grab us before the "adventure" turned out to be dangerous!

3. They're Inventive

They never let simple tasks bore them... Instead they found creative ways to get them done!

4. They Have Endless Cheesy Sayings.

Was your dad full of cheesy sayings or jokes?

5. They Want To Impress Their Kids

One of their biggest goals in life is to impress their kids.

6. They Make Sure Their Kids Know They Can Do Anything

They never let us feel like we couldn't do something we put our minds to. They're always encouraging us that we could do anything!

7. They Were Always Your Favorite One To Stay Home With

Staying home with dad always meant a lot of fun!

8. They Never Did Anything The "Simple" Way.

They made everything fun! Which means we were willing to do things we never imagined ourselves doing!

 9. They Always Try

Whether or not it works in the end (watch the clip until the end!), they always try their best.

10. Sometimes, They Need To Be Reminded You Care.

Our dads have always seemed tough, but they need to hear how much we love them. It reminds them they're doing a good job and that we need them.

What is one reason YOU love YOUR dad?

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Kids Say The Darndest Things

Kids Say The Darndest Things

Kids Say The Darndest Things... Every Day Of Their Lives

Living in a house full of little boys is chaotic to say the least. I spend my days sword fighting, wrestling, telling my children to stop picking their noses, fishing toys out of the toilet, catching my three year old peeing in trash cans that are right next to the toilet, being told I'm not very good at video games, and so much more. I love having people over and seeing the look on their faces when they enter into our chaos. It's loud, crazy, full of energy, and I love it. I've grown accustomed to all of it and while I thrive on a few minutes of peace and quiet at the end of the night...I love it. 

Here are some of the things I've heard my kids say this week... 

I was reading my kids one of the new Bharat Babies books and my son saw the momma had on a bindi. "Momma! Was she shot!?""Blah blee do utha ca see do." When I asked my son why he was saying that he told me he was speaking in Spanish like his friends at the gym...The Almost Indian Wife- Kids Say The Darndest Things"Momma, one day you'll be good at video games, but for now I think you should stop playing and just get me dada.""Momma why do you get to marry dada and not me? It's not fair!""You have poopy eyes like dinosaurs!" "He's peeing in the garbage!!""He's hitting me!" Then I told Levi he was in trouble for hitting his brother. "Mom, it's ok! I liked him hitting me. He's not in trouble now.""How dare you!" My son's response after I told him he was in trouble for coloring on the walls. 

I know I'm not the only with with a crazy life that I completely adore. Comment and share some of the crazy things your kids have said or done this week!

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How Can Schools Embrace Diversity

How Can Schools Celebrate Diversity?
Over the years, my children have learned they're biracial. They realized they were different than their friends and that our family does things differently. We wear Indian clothes for holidays and special events. We eat Indian food with our handsDaddy speaks two languagesMommy is white. Daddy is brown. At first, I was worried they would be insecure over feeling different, but their differences are normal to them. They've grown up being biracial, it didn't just happen over night. They grew up blending cultures. Their normal is what they'll compare everything else to.As parents, we need to shape what's normal for our children. This means we show them diversity at home and every where they go.What about when they get old enough for school?It's becoming more common for schools to be made up of a diverse student body. The problem is the school itself isn't teaching diversity as what's normal. They get worried about highlighting a student's differences instead of teaching them to embrace it. If schools were to teach children to embrace what makes them unique, I truly believe bullying would go down. 

How Can Schools Embrace Diversity

Focus On All Major Holidays

During Holi (an holiday celebrated in India), my Facebook feed went crazy! My friends in India and the US were celebrating. Colleges in the US were even celebrating the colorful holiday by taking the colored powder to the lawn and having a great time! However, the one place I didn't see students celebrating or even talking about it was in elementary schools. They missed a huge opportunity to teach kids about India. Schools say they don't celebrate most holidays because of the religious ties to them. Just because you talk to your students about a holiday in India doesn't mean you need to convert them to hinduism while you're at it. By teaching students about major holidays celebrated around the world, you make students from those countries feel accepted and normal. You're also opening up your student and teacher's minds about something different to them. 

Ask Questions Instead Of Avoiding Situations

I recently heard about a school where the principle will avoid saying international student's last names. During an assembly, he will list off first and last names until he gets to them and then he just uses their first name... Do you think that student feels normal or accepted when their own principle is too embarrassed to try and say their last name? No. All he had to do is get to know his students and ask them. By asking how to say their last name correctly, the student can see that the principle cares. Often times, teachers and adults will avoid topics because they're embarrassed. It only leads to students feeling ostracized and abnormal. Instead, they should be facing those situations head on and educate themselves.

Teacher Trainings 

Teachers need to be educated on their students. They need to understand who they are, where they came from, and general religious practices. These trainings are the perfect time for teachers to ask their questions without a fear of saying the wrong thing. As teachers become more comfortable with different cultures, their teaching style will change. You need to know your students to know how you can teach them and how to really speak into their lives. --We need to bridge the cultures gap at home and in our schools. Diversity needs to be what's normal for our children, rather than teaching them to avoid talking about what makes us different. 

What else can schools do to embrace diversity?

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Things I Never Thought I Would Say Until I Had Kids...

Things I Never Thought I Would Say Until I Had Kids...After a full week of going to the gym every day, my children are finally excited to go. It started off a struggle every morning because none of us wanted to go, but I knew we needed to. After they started to make new friends and realized how much fun they were having, they started to anticipate it every morning.Now, we're all excited to get out the door in the morning to head to the gym. Okay, I still have my days where I have to listen to my trusty Instagram friends and sleep in my gym clothes to motivate me to go, but I'm having less and less of those days. This morning, my kids were racing to the Lifetime Kid's Activity Room (fancy name for gym childcare). Liam beat us to the door and the only logical move that came to Levi was to bite him. "Levi, we don't bite!""Mom, he won and I hate when he wins! So, I bit him.""Well, I don't bite my brothers when they beat me at something."As soon as the words left my mouth, I realized how silly it sounded. Sometimes, the things we have to tell our kids is completely nuts. I never would have expected I would have had to tell my kids half the things I do on a weekly basis. Another mom over heard me and started laughing. She knew it too. We gave each other the look. You know the look I'm talking about. The "I'm right there with you," look. This post is to all of you moms out there. I'm right there with you! Here are just a few of the things I've had to tell my kids....

Never in a million years did I think I would have to say to my kids...

It's not nice to pee on your brother. Why are you licking him!?Stop licking the floor!Don't eat that! It was in the garbage!Stop licking the dog's water!Take the underwear off your head!Stop putting underwear on your baby brother's head!Don't clean the toilet with your tooth brush!You can't put your sandwich on the toilet!Stop trying to fart on your brother's face!No, you cannot put your brother in your toy box.No poop is not a bad word, I just don't want to hear you talk about it. Be a good example and stop eating your boogers!

I definitely didn't expect them to say this...

Mom, I had to pee and I couldn't wait so I peed in the tub.Mom! My brother is outside naked!Do you see that? That man has a towel on his head. I think he was just in the shower. Mom, you're tummy is big again. Is there another baby in there?How did my baby brother come out of your belly button? It's really small...Mommy, if you don't let me stay up I won't give you any money... but I will give you money...Did the dinosaurs eat Jesus?Mommy, when I get big can I marry you?Mom, Levi took my bed skin (bed sheet) off!--Life with kids is one of the craziest things, but it's never dull.

What is the craziest thing you've found yourself saying to your kids?

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