Dinner Time Discussions With Kids
Dinner Time Discussions With Kids
As parents, it's always been important to my husband and I to eat dinner around the table. At first it was hard to get into the routine. My husband and I would eat on the go or while watching TV. Then we had kids and realized how important that quality time was.I love seeing how our dinner time conversations have changed over the years. At first it was just my husband and I talking to each other about our days or trying to make our kids laugh. Now that they are all a bit older, it's a whole different ball game.Our kids are hilarious even without trying to be.The things that come out of their mouths during dinner sometimes have my husband and I rolling laughing! See for yourself. Here are just a few of the small conversations we've had!
Things My Kids Say During Dinner
- Hey mom?
- Can I have water?
- Momma, can I marry you?
- Mommy, I'll never find a girl I'll love! I only love you!
- Dadda, he's breathing on me!
- Stop looking at me!
- What is this? It doesn't look like dinner.
- Can I be done?
- Mom?
- Why does he get to be done!
- Can I have water?
- Why do you get to make all the rules?
- Is God in my heart?
- No! God's in my tummy!
- Does that mean God's eating my dinner right now?
- Mom, I can't eat this because God says it's not his favorite...
- I'm eating more than you.
- Mom!
- This is too spicy.
- Did you know I'm more Indian than you momma.
- Dad, did you brush your teeth today?
- I have to feed Bella (our dog) some because she's so hungry.
- He's touching me!
- MOM!?
- Mom, can you read tonight's bed time story because daddy does weird voices...
- MOMMY.
What do your dinner time conversations look like?
Start Your Day With A Mango Lassi Smoothie!
Hectic Mornings And Mango Lassi!
Growing up, I never had the title of a Morning Person. I would sleep in as long as humanly possible, giving myself the exact amount of time I needed to get ready. Every minute of sleep counted and I did everything in my power to get as many as I could!Then it all changed the day I had my first son.As a mother, mornings are a whole different ball game. You don't just have to get yourself ready every morning, you have to get all the little people in your house ready! Not to mention help your husband find everything he can't seem to find on his own...In addition to getting them dressed, reminding them to keep their clothes on, you have to make breakfast!Most mornings in our house mean cereal. It's quick and easy. Not to mention my oldest can pour his own bowl! The day he learned to do that was a huge day in our family!The problem with quick breakfasts like cereal is that it's not always the most nutritious way to start of your kid's day. They need to have a rich breakfast that will help them get the energy they need at school or to get their day going at home.I started talking to my mother in law as well as my husband's Pinnis. I asked them what they give to their kids for good and nutritious breakfasts and their idea was just what we needed!They whip up simple mango lassis!Think mango smoothie, triple the taste, and that's what you get when you make a mango lassi. It's one of my favorite little pick me ups during the day and it's so good for you!
Simplify Your Mornings With BelVita Biscuits
We started whipping these up every morning and serve it with BelVita biscuits. It's great because they give our kids everything they need to start off their mornings! My favorite part... it's as quick as cereal and way better for you!I've had Mango Lassi smoothies in the past, but I always assumed they would be way too hard to make at home. If only I would have known how easy they were! My kids are obsessed with them! They used to associate them with their Umamma's house and now they think I'm the greatest mom for learning how to make them!Two mom points for me!
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What is your favorite BelVita Biscuit flavor?
New Year's Eve Reflection Game
I love taking time to reflect at the end of the year with my family. We cozy up in front of the fire and talk about our favorite memories for the year and also what we learned from the harder times.The hard part is sometimes you end up blanking in the moment and lose the opportunity to share it with the rest of the family. This year we decided to change it up a bit. We made a little New Year's Eve Reflection Jar.
New Year's Eve For Our Family
On New Year's Eve our family is going to sit down and answer a few questions. We will write the questions on a piece of paper and throw it in the jar. At the end of the night we're going to sit down and take turns answering different questions.It's easy to want to wish away a hard year, but the important thing is to learn from it. 2016 is full of 365 days worth of memories. There's no way they were all bad. In fact those memories have all come together to make us who we are right now.Take some time to put together your own New Year's Eve jar! Let your kids decorate it or get fancy yourself.
20 Questions To Ask Yourself As You Reflect Over 2016
Here are a few questions you can write down on your pieces of paper to throw in the jar!
- What was the most memorable part of this year for you?
- How has this year changed you?
- What was your most embarrassing moment of the year?
- What was the most challenging part of the year?
- Describe this year in one word.
- How did you grow this year?
- What new found love did you develop this year? (Type of music, food, movies, etc)
- What was your biggest time waster of the year?
- What is the biggest lesson you learned this year?
- What is your biggest accomplishment this year?
- Which of your relationships grew the most this year?
- What made you laugh the hardest this year?
- What was the best movie you saw this year?
- What New Year's Eve resolution did you not keep this year?
- Favorite place you went this year?
- Worst food you tried this year?
- What was your favorite holiday memory this year?
- What was the best piece of advice you received this year?
- The person I want to be more like this year?
- What is your New Year's Eve resolution?
What are your plans for New Year's Eve?
New Year's Eve Family Fun Link Up
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Traditional Butter Chicken Recipe
Are you looking for a delicious chicken dish to warm you up over the holidays? If so I have the perfect meal for you! Butter chicken!
This post is sponsored by Shan Foods. As always all opinions are my own.
Winter Friendly Dishes To Warm You Up
Over the last few weeks, we have received about ten inches of snow! This means it's going to be a white Christmas! I've always loved this season. Probably because cold weather brings about some of my favorite things. I love cozying up in front of the fireplace, scarves, boots, and above all yummy dishes that warm you up from the inside out.
My family has loved all the tasty dishes we've been cooking up. A few of the dishes we've been cooking up are Pav Bhaji, Karahi Chicken, and Lahori Fish.
Last night we whipped up Butter Chicken! I can always tell when my family likes something I make based on what they do after their first plate is finished. If they struggle to eat the first plate I know the dish wasn't a success. However, if they ask for seconds I start doing a little happy dance!
My whole family was begging for seconds last night!
I love this dish because it only took me 45 minutes to make! Shan Foods designs their spice packs for busy families! Anyone can whip up traditional Indian dishes using their mixes. Whether you're in college trying to make something simple or you're just plain busy and need something quick to make Shan Foods is perfect for you!
This month they even have a killer deal perfect for every family! You can buy 3 Shan Food's Packets and get 1 free!
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Personalities You Can Find At A Sleepover
If you look carefully you can spot a few distinct personalities at every sleepover! Here is what they look like!
The Types Of Kids You Have At A Sleepover
There are always a few personalities you can spot at a sleepover and I feel like I can identify which one my kids are already.
The Rule Follower
The child who constantly reminds their friends of the rules. If one of their friends dares to break a rule, they will run to the closest adult to let them know about said offense. Or they take it into their own hands and try to keep everyone in line.
The Dare Devil
The child that just has to test the rules. They have to know what will actually happen if the break all the rules. If they jump on the couch from the coffee table, sneak their spaghetti onto my light colored rug, or shake up a pop bottle. Don't even think about leaving this child alone during the night!
The Silent Instigator
The child who's too scared to be naughty on their own so they try an "encourage" their friends to do all the things they wish they could. They end up flying under the radar because they don't ever get caught in the act. This is the one you have to watch out for.
The One Upper
The child that has to top everyone else's stories or things they do throughout the night. This is the kiddo that can cause a parent's night to get out of control because it's never good enough. They have to be the bravest, toughest, and coolest kid of the night.
The Crier
The child you have to watch for at the end of the night. When they start putting on their jammies and realize they truly are staying the night the tears start coming. They start asking for mom and dad. Then they start trying to figure out when they get to go home. If you're not careful this can end up with mom and dad driving to your house in the middle of the night. Distract. Distract. Distract.
The Angel
The child you wish you could keep! They listen to you all night while having fun with their friends. They tell you what a fun parent you are and beg to come to your house all the time! You may even throw in a few "well intended" comments to your own kids about how much their friend likes you and how much nicer they are to you than they are.
The Sleeper
The child that always falls asleep before everyone else. They try their hardest to stay up late with their friends, but they can't help it. They fall asleep during the movie and on the couch during the game. This is the kid that usually ends up with pictures on their face or shaving cream...
Which personality best described you at your own sleepovers as a kid?
I was definitely the rule follower. I was way too scared to break any rules, much less encourage other kids to do the same thing. Now my oldest son is exactly the same! He's the one yelling at his friends for whispering after they all go to bed and reminding them of the house rules. As his mom I'm proud of him, but as his friend I have to remind him to live a little sometimes!My husband on the other hand was the dare devil. He always had to do something crazy and dragged his friends along with him! The best was visiting his house while we were dating and going downstairs to see little holes all over the basement wall. I asked him how it happened and he said it was an air-soft gun war he had with his friends... He's definitely getting it back as a parents because our three year old is our little dare devil! He's always looking for something crazy to do!
Which personality fits you or your kids?
Spoil Your Pet Over The Holidays With Krisers!
How To Spoil Your Pet Over The Holidays
The day after Thanksgiving, my kids started getting their Christmas lists together! They were on the hunt for every toy or game they saw. Whether it was on a commercial, grocery store ads, a movie, or even one of our books. They added it all!My kids are little and most of the time they're only worried about their own lists. This year their holiday cheer took over. They weren't just looking for their own Christmas toys, they started looking for people the loved!They begged me to take them to the store so they could choose the best toy for their sibling and of course mommy and daddy. The best moment was when they asked me if they could choose our dog Bella a present. They said they didn't want her to feel bad on Christmas morning when everyone had a gift except for her. Then if I wasn't sold already they said this...Momma, Christmas is the perfect time to show people how much we love them and I really love Bella. How can you even say no to that one?You can't. It was such a special moment as a parent. I loved seeing my boys so excited to do something for someone else. We decided to take it a step further this year. Instead of just getting her a present we sat down and made a list of ways we could spoil our puppy over the holidays.
Get Them Their Own Stocking
Get your special friend their own stocking this year and fill it with a few of their favorite things. We have ours filled with doggie treats and a few little toys. I'm pretty sure she can already smell it because she stares at it all day!
Puppy Pamper Time
Take your pup to your local Krisers for some puppy pamper time! You can schedule ahead and they do your pups nails and even give them a stylish holiday hair do! What dog doesn't want to go in for a little massage and mani/pedi?
Have Fun With Your Pup
Pick up a few new toys for your dog this year. You can grab something they haven't played with before or one of their favorites. The options are endless. Our dog's favorite is the toy you can fill with treats or peanut butter!
Take Your Pup On An Adventure
Load up the car and take your doggy friend on an adventure! We took Bella to our local Krisers! It was perfect! She was able to walk around the store, explore, meet some new friends, and she even got a few complimentary holiday cookies!
Holiday Pet Essentials At Krisers
Are you a pet lover like we are?If so, Krisers is perfect for you! This pet friendly store is run by the sweetest people! They eagerly wait for you and your family pet to come in and they take time to spoil them! I've gone in with and without my pet and I truly love this store. I went in this morning with my kids and the gal that worked there took us throughout the store to show us around.She helped the kids choose the perfect toy and we even got her something adorable to wear!I'm usually nervous to take the kids to a store with so much to touch and play with, but Krisers encourages it! They want you to look around and touch everything. They even let your pet sniff around to choose their own treats!Head over to your local Krisers today and see what your pets think!
Hosting Family Over The Holidays
As we welcome the holidays we need to focus on the special moments rather than some of the stress that can come along with it all. Here are a few tips to make sure you enjoy your holidays!
Hosting Your First Christmas
Hosting family for the holidays is something we look forward to, but comes with it's own set of stressors. There are so many things to think about and the last thing you want to do is be completely stressed out during the holidays. The holidays are the time to relax and enjoy the season with your friends and family.
Prepare Something Special For Your Guests
Before your guests arrive, prepare a little gift for them. I like to make a little basket for my friends and family when they stay with me. It's full of water, something sweet, face wash, tooth paste, shampoo, and conditioner. It helps to ensure your guests have everything they need while staying in your home.
Have Extra Snacks On Hand
When you're in your own home, you're comfortable enough to raid your own kitchen looking for something to eat. It's not always the case at someone else's house. Be sure to fill your pantry with simple snacks and let your guests know about it right away. Then they can feel at home without worrying over what they can enjoy.
Keep It Simple
It's always a desire to make sure your guests enjoy themselves. You want them to have a great time and you also want to spoil them. The problem with this is that the holidays are already hectic and adding too much can make it a stressful time rather than enjoyable. Do what you can to keep your schedules simple and relaxing when you can. More often than not it's the simple things people enjoy more than the hectic and busy days.
Plan A Few Structured Events
While doing your best to keep your guests time stress free, add in a few events. Whether it's taking them to a local tourist attraction or going to see Christmas lights. Plan a few events everyone can attend and make the most of your time out!
Develop A Quick 15 Minute Clean Up Plan
Hosting a few extra people in your home means double the mess. Before they arrive, develop a quick 15 minute clean up plan. Then you will be able to sporadically tidy up the house during the day without feeling like you have to clean the whole time.Bona cleaning supplies are just what you need. You can use their dry cloths to pick up anything on the floor and then do a quick mop with their wet cloths. They're great for a quick tidy up around the house! After you're done sprucing up your floors you can spend your time enjoying the simple moments during the holidays.
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What are your tips for hosting family over the holidays?
The King Of The Wild Things
The King of the wild things.
Over the years, I've begun to develop an interesting relationship with birthdays. On one hand you're celebrating all the accomplishments someone has had throughout the year. It's a time to encourage that person and let them know how much you care. On the other hand it means you're getting older and as a parent it can mean your little baby is one year older.A little more independent.One year more grown up.One year closer to not needing mommy and daddy as much.Oh boy. When did I become such a sap!? I sat there staring at my little Lucas all day yesterday asking myself where the time has gone. Yes, I became that parent. I fully admit it and I know I'll be in the same mood, asking myself the same question on every birthday my kids have in the future.My husband and I have gone through so much with our little boy over this last year and look at him! You'd never guess! He is one of the bravest and strongest little two year olds I know which is why his birthday theme was easy to choose.He's my little wild thing.
Where The Wild Things Are
Every night my kids and I have the same routine. I tuck them into bed, kiss them, tell them just how much I love them, and then we have an adventure. We choose one of our favorite books and go off into a different land in our imaginations. Lately, it's been the same adventure over and over again. Not that my kids mind at all. They find new things to think about and their obsession for this book grows deeper with each page.
Where The Wild Things Are.
I loved this book when it fist came out, but as a mom it's pure gold. I have three little wild things of my own and I love reading it to them. The relationship between the mom and the little boy is beautiful. The little boy runs wild throughout the beginning of the book and ends up taking it to far with his mom. She sends him to bed without his dinner and he becomes angry.He gets so angry that his room turns into a jungle and he ventures off to the land of the wild things and he becomes their king. He gets to be as wild as his heart desires and realizes it's not enough. He gets lonely and wants to go back home. He decides he's done living with the wild things and ventures back home. When he gets back to his room he's reminded just how much his momma loves him with a warm bowl of soup.The mom was angry with her son too, but at the end of the day she couldn't let him go to bed without a full belly and she wanted to show him how loved he was.There are so many times I get frustrated with my own wild things, but at the end of the day their mine. I love their wild antics and their imaginations. Especially my little two year old's imagination. Everything is so much more unique to him. He finds something fun and beautiful about everything he sees.
Our Wild Birthday Party
Yesterday, we celebrated Lucas's 2nd birthday and turned our home into the land of the wild things!I was just as excited as my boys were to come up with fun decorations for the party and see where our imaginations could take us. The piece I was most eager about was the cake. Growing up, I remember my aunt making the most adorable cakes! She even passed her skill onto her kids. I had no idea how hard it could be until I tried making my first cake!Thankfully I've learned a few things through trial and error. I want my kids to remember my cakes as they grow up and be able to say...My mom makes the best cakes! I was up to the task for Lucas's party this week! After a lot of brainstorming and scouring Pinterest for inspiration, I came up with the perfect idea.
Chocolate Curls (Tree Bark)
Combine 1 bag of chocolate chips and 1 TBS coconut oil in a microwave safe bowl. Put the bowl in the microwave for 30 seconds at a time and stir. Continue until your chocolate is completely melted.Spread the melted chocolate on a piece of parchment paper. Make sure the chocolate is spread evenly. Then roll up your parchment paper and put it in the fridge until it's cooled. When the chocolate hardens unroll it and voila. You have chocolate curls.
Assembling The Cake
Assemble your cake and ice it with chocolate frosting. Cover the outside of the cake with your chocolate curls. When the cake is covered with chocolate curls, dust it with cocoa powder.Cover the top with graham cracker crumbs. I added a bit of green food coloring to make it look like moss.
Where The Wild Things Are Party Snacks
Add a few outdoors-ey themed party snacks and your party is complete. These little smores on a stick were my favorite.
3 Things To Keep In Mind For Christmas With Little Ones
The Worst Part Of Family Vacations
We are officially home!We survived our flight with three little boys and they did great! They love flying and usually don't mind a day at the airport. This trip was a little different because they were so sad to leave my husband's side of the family! It's always the worst part of visiting family... The leaving part.The only way our boys were willing to leave their house was after promising we would Facetime every day. Thank God for technology! It makes it so nice when you miss family that lives far away.They're also extremely excited because we're only home for a few days and then we're off to see my family! Even more cousins, aunts, uncles, and a Harley riding grandpa to spoil them rotten!Since we only have a few days home we thought we'd relax on the couch and do nothing... If only!Now, we're racing around to get ready for baby Luke's 2nd birthday party, dealing with the poor little guy's ear infection, and packing for our next trip! Oh, and how could I forget decorating for Christmas!
Spreading Christmas Cheer!
One of my favorite things to put up this year is our fluffy fake snow! After moving to the Midwest I've developed a strange relationship with the snow. There's just so much here! It's not like the movies! You get snowed in, you do everything in your power to stay inside, and you try to stay under your blanket all day!Luckily my fluffy fake snow is cute and festive without the freezing temperatures!
Passing Down Christmas Traditions
How could I forget my new little nativity scene!Growing up, I counted down the days until my mom would bring out her nativity scene. She would lay down her fluffy snow and set up the whole village. One by one my brother and I would watch her set up each house and then she'd get to the stable. The best part of the whole village! It lit up and reminded us what the whole nativity scene was about.My husband knows how important my mom's nativity scene has always been to my siblings and I, but we've been worried about the kids. Nativity scenes can be pricey and I've never liked to stress about decorations. I'd rather enjoy the season than worry about my kid's touching everything.This is exactly why our tree is filled with felt ornaments, all of our decorations can be played with, and it's all about fun rather than "off limits."Then I found this! I was walking up and down the festive Target aisles, like I would do every day if I could, and found this gem! It's the perfect nativity scene for this stage in our family. The kids can play with it and we can talk about the message rather than telling them they can't play with it.I'd show you the rest of our decorations, but we just got home from vacation and the house is less than impressive!
3 Things To Keep In Mind For Christmas With Little Ones
Having three little boys under 6 has definitely taught me something. Over the years we've figured out a few things that have helped us to enjoy our holidays more!
Avoid The Breakables.
As your kids get older you can upgrade your decorations. While they're little, stick to non-breakables when you can. Look for felt ornaments and decorations that won't break if they're dropped or knocked over. It's going to relieve some of your stress and the kids won't have to worry about what they can and can't touch.
How Can The Kids Get Involved?
One of the reasons kids start touching everything is that it's all novel! They don't see these things every day and just want to play and have fun! One thing we've done over the years is get the kid's their own decorations. We have a little box and it's full of their Christmas decorations! They love it because we let them decorate however they choose. They even have their own little tree!Create your own kid's Christmas box this year! Take the kids to the store and let them pick and choose what to put inside. You can add to it each year!
Enjoy The Christmas Season!
Christmas is about so much more than the stress that can come along with it. To quote a very inspirational person..."The best way to spread Christmas cheer is singing loud for all to hear."Don't put too much on your plate and try to remember to have fun! Take time to just walk around your neighborhood with hot cocoa in hand and look at the Christmas lights. Find simple ways your family can enjoy the holiday season without all the stress.A few of our favorites are holiday movie nights, decorating pre-made sugar cookies, and listening to Christmas music all day!
What's your favorite Christmas tradition with your family?
Christmas Gift Guide
Hear all about our Christmas traditions and see a few of our favorite Christmas gift guides!
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Our Christmas Traditions
Christmas is just a few short weeks away! It's always been one of my favorite holidays because it's full of good memories. I remember growing up and counting down the days until Christmas Eve. In my family, Christmas Eve was the big day. We would all gather together at my grandma's house, open Christmas pajamas, make cinnamon ornaments, and eat delicious food!What are your Christmas Eve traditions?This year my kids are all old enough to really get into the Christmas spirit. They're even counting down the days to Christmas Eve like I used to!This Christmas is going to be very special for our family. It's our first year hosting! It's intimidating, but so exciting. My husband and I have been going through the menu, activities, Christmas Eve celebrations, decorations, and presents!I feel like I'm more excited about hosting than I am about Christmas day! I guess that means I'm officially an adult now.As we've been planning, I've put together a few lists or our favorite must haves! Check them out and see which ones are your favorite!
Christmas Eve Gifts!
The Nativity Story MovieRudolph The Red Nose Reindeer FigurinesHot Cocoa MugsKid's Nativity SetTrainInflatable SantaSanta Cookies and Milk SetPersonalized OrnamentsChristmas PajamasStockings
Christmas Activity Gifts!
Elf On The ShelfChristmas Edition Of Bean BoozledSpot ItNightmare Before Christmas ClueA Christmas Story Board GameReindeer PopperFelt Christmas TreeChristmas Activity BookGingerbread House SetLetters For Santa
Moana Maui the Demigod's Kakamora Adventure
Moana's Magical Seashell Necklace
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15 Reasons I'm Grateful For My Multiracial Family
The holidays are always such a good reminder to sit down and think about what you're grateful for. This year I've been thinking about all the reasons I'm grateful for my multiracial family.Our family has been looking forward to the holidays for months now. We were excited to be with our family we don't get to see often, enjoy delicious holiday food, and spend hours laughing about silly things.One of the biggest reasons I've been counting down the days is because I selfishly wanted my family to myself. During the rest of the year I have to share them with school, work, and other daily responsibilities. The holidays are my chance to get them all to myself and I don't have to share them.Parents hear it all the time.Savor every minute with your family. Over the holidays, I plan to do just that. I want to savor everything about them. So today, I thought what better than a list of all the reasons I'm grateful for my multiracial family. There are so many reasons I fall more in love with them every day, but here are just a few.
15 Reasons I'm Grateful For My Multiracial Family
The bond between my children.
As my kids are getting older, I've been able to see a true friendship form between them. At first it was an extreme love/hate relationship, but their love for each other is something else. I love being able to see them encourage each other and stand by each other's sides!
The blessing of raising momma's boys.
I never would have expected to be raising three boys, but now that I am I wouldn't have it any other way! I love being a mom to three strong and vibrant little boys. Not to mention they're all mommas boys and beg to cuddle me! I hope they never outgrow it!
The ability to see how caring my children are.
Every parent wants their kids to care about people around them. Seeing it happen is a different thing all together. This week I witnessed my son encourage his cousin who was crying over a game. I reminded him to give his cousin space so he could calm down, but he wouldn't budge. He had to stay until his chininna was feeling ok again. I love watching this because it shows me that they actually care.
My husband is an amazing role model of what it looks like to be a great daddy.
One of the reasons my kids are the way they are is because they have a great daddy to look up to. Their daddy has shown them what it means to provide for their family, be loving, take care of them, and how to always strive to be your best. They love their daddy so much and I am so grateful to see how close they all are!
I get to help shape my boys into the little men they will grow into.
Sometimes parenting is completely overwhelming. It all adds up and you ask yourself what you're even doing! Then you realize that all the hard work you put in every day is for your kids. It all adds together to help shape your kids into the adults they're going to be. What an honor to have such a special place in their lives.
My husband and I get to teach our boys what it means to be in a loving marriage.
My husband and I are going on year seven of marriage. We are anything but perfect and have our fair share of ridiculous fights in front of our kids. In spite of our imperfections, our kids know without a doubt that we love each other. They know we'll fight to keep our marriage strong and that they can feel safe.
We get to go on adventures together.
We have been extremely blessed over the years and have been able to go on dozens of family adventures. As I write this we're cozied up in bed in Texas visiting family. I love being able to make these memories together.
We are blessed with two beautiful cultures in our family.
As a multiracial family, we get to give our kids two different cultures and help them blend together to create their own cultural identity. I love watching them process through it all and find new things to fall in love with in each culture.
My kids are healthy.
We've had some pretty big health scares this year with our youngest son. As I look at his sweet little sleeping face I'm reminded how lucky I am that he's here with me and healthy. I'm beyond grateful that I am able to say all three of my kids are strong and healthy.
We have a huge support system.
Throughout all of the hospital scares this year, I've never had to worry about my two big kids. We've had a huge support system come around and take care of us.
I have the best partner in life.
My husband is my best friend. Not many couples can say that and truly mean it. The last year has brought us closer together and I am grateful to say he's the one I get to spend my whole life with.
My kids want their parents to join in on the fun!
I know it may not always last, but as of right now my kids beg us to play with them. They want my husband and I to be apart of their little games and it makes my heart so happy.
We actually want to hang out with our kids!
As our kids get older, they're getting to some pretty fun ages! They can actually play fun group games and I have to admit... my husband and I actually want to hang out with them! I love how our family nights have become about board games and fun activities together!
Our kids teach us something each day!
I love that I can learn so much from my kids. They teach me to have patience and more love in my heart for those around me. They remind me that not everything is as big as it seems. They lovingly encourage me every day that family is what matters.
I love my little family.
At the end of the day, I am just so overwhelmingly in love with my little multiracial family. They have made my life something so much more beautiful than I ever thought possible.
What are you grateful for this year?
Lahori Fish Fry Recipe
It's that time of the month again, which can only mean one thing... A new recipe featuring delicious Shan Food spices! Our last two recipes have been Pav Bhaji and Karahi Chicken. Which one has been your favorite so far?
This post is sponsored by Shan Foods. As always all opinions are my own.
My Kids Have Been Waiting For Lahori Fish!
Growing up I was never a big fan of fish. The texture and the idea of it just freaked me out. Then it all changed while I was pregnant with my second son. I craved it all day long! I even went to an OB appointment demanding to know the type of fish I could have and exactly how much because I knew I'd eat every bit I could.I'm not as obsessed as I was while pregnant, but my love for fish was sparked. I realized it wasn't that I didn't like fish it was that I needed to have it made just right!This is why I was so excited when I saw that Shan Foods had a fish fry box! I picked it up right away and showed my boys, who then proceeded to beg me to make it for dinner!
Lahori Fish Recipe
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*All Shan Foods boxes can be found at your local Indian grocery store*
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My Multicultural Family: Our Thanksgiving Adventure
Early flights, skipping children, and making Thanksgiving memories! Combine them all together and that's what our little almost Indian family has been doing the last few days!
My Multicultural Family: Our Thanksgiving Adventure
Our kids have been counting down to our Thanksgiving vacation to Texas for weeks! They couldn't wait to visit their Chininnas, Pinnis, Thathas, and Nanammas. They were so excited that they would even announce their upcoming trip to everyone around them while grocery shopping! Needless to say, they have been ready for a while!As excited as they were, I was worried about them the morning of the flight. We had to wake the kids up around 4 am to make it to the shuttle in time. My oldest, Liam was the first one to start walking around the hotel room.Momma, I'm the opposite of awake...He started to tell me he was going to go back to bed and take a later flight. Then his excitement got the best of him and he shot out of bed when he realized the trip he had been waiting for was finally here!They are the only kids I know that will skip down the the shuttle at 4 am!
Momma's Well Deserved First Class Upgrade!
Luckily I've been blessed with a wonderful husband who gets his wife upgraded to first class with the baby! The baby that sleeps through most flights. I wish I could say I felt bad leaving my husband and the two big kids behind in coach, but... no.I figured they all owed it to me for every pregnancy, labor, wiped nose, early morning wake up call, back rub, Indian dinner prepared, and ounce of love I've given them. Yes, I went there.The problem is that I slept through the first class meal and drinks! Ooops.I planned on staying awake, but my first class baby passenger cuddled me right to sleep!
What is your funniest traveling story?
#AD Surviving Winter With A Winter Toolkit
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Stand Up Against Winter This Year
Growing up, I hardly got sick. When I did it was always kind of nice. I'd get one of those down in bed colds and my mom would take care of me all day. She would make me hot soup, tea, and watch Gilmore Girls all day.
Seriously, what could be better than a sick day at home in your own bed!
Now that I'm a mom and have kids of my own I'm realizing it's a whole different ball game! A sick child in my own home is a different story all together. It means trying to do everything in my momma powers to prevent my other kids from catching their siblings illness, but knowing they'll just pass it around anyways.
As a parent, having a sick child can be exhausting! You end up awake in the middle of the night taking care of them, doing everything for them, and it can take a toll on your body.
Stand Up To Winter With Our Winter Toolkit And A Few Family Tips
If you're not careful, the winter season can be taken over by illnesses, aches, and pains! Don't let it ruin your winter plans and be sure to follow our family tips!
Rest
The winter season can end up getting extremely busy. It's full of vacations, family visits, the Holidays, and so much more. One big reason families end up down during the holidays is a lack of rest. When you're not sleeping well, your immune system isn't as strong as it needs to be to fight everything around. Not to mention your body starts feeling all the little aches and pains! Be sure to rest up over the holidays!
Wash Your Hands Frequently
Hand washing is a good routine to have all year long, but make sure your family amps it up over the winter season. Have everyone wash their hands after they get home, before they eat, and anytime they touch your mouth. It will help to prevent anyone from sharing germs and hopefully prevent them from getting sick!
Build Your Own Winter Toolkit
Every year we build a winter toolkit. It has changed over the years to fit our families needs, much like yours will. It's helped us so much because we always have the essentials on hand. Whether you're trying to make sure you're ready to take care of any family members that fall under the weather or for loved ones that come and visit over the holidays.This year our winter toolkit contains tissues with essential oils, disinfectant wipes, immunity tablets, epson salt, tea, and Ultra Strength BENGAY®. Our winter toolkit helps prevent winter illnesses as well as takes care of any aches and pains mom and dad may have.My husband and I have already broken into the Ultra Strength BENGAY® this year. Whether it be from a long day of yard work or a busy day with the kids Ultra Strength BENGAY® always hits the spot. It gets down into the muscles and gets rid of those aches and pains! It gives mom and dad a little pampering at the end of the day just like they need!
Make Your Own Winter Toolkit Today
Make your own winter toolkit today by heading to Target and pick up everything you may need! Don't forget to add in Ultra Strength BENGAY®. It helps with any aches and pains you may have due to taking care of sick kids or staying up all night wrapping presents! It will end up being your favorite thing in your winter toolkit!
What are you going to add into your winter toolkit this year?
30 Ways To Spice Up Date Night!
Date night. The one time during the week where you can put everything aside and have some fun!When my husband and I first got together our date nights were always exciting. We were always thinking up new adventurous ideas. A few kids later and date night became just another thing we couldn't get to. We were so busy with the kids and work during the day that the idea of doing something extravagant (or anything other than binge watching something on Netflix) felt exhausting.It took us a while to realize just how important date nights are to our relationship.
This post is sponsored by Groupon Goods. As always, all opinions are my own.
Do We Really Have To Go On A Date
Parents joke about date nights all the time. They start to see it as something they used to have time for, but now it's not possible.Date nights are a luxury.In reality date nights are vital to a healthy relationship. Couples can get so focused on work, finances, and their kids that they forget to work on their relationship. Date nights help couples to keep the spark alive.Over the years, you and your loved one will change and date nights help you to grow together. It's an opportunity to talk, encourage each other, show each other that you're fighting for your relationship, get out of your day to day routine, and have fun!
30 Ways To Spice Up Date Night
Groupon Goods is here to help spice up date nights! They have countless deals to make sure you and your loved one can get out and have fun each week! Instead of just doing dinner and a movie, try something new! Here are 30 things Groupon Goods can give you a great deal on!My husband and I always check out our Groupon Goods app to find local deals! It pushes us out of our normal date night plans and helps us save money too!
- Tour your city
- Wine tasting
- Helicopter tour
- Planetarium
- Go bowling
- Ice skating
- Art lessons
- Attend a concert
- Go to a museum
- Go to a fun restaurant
- Get drinks
- Go dancing
- Brewery
- Watch a football game
- Try a workout class
- Relax at a spa
- Get a makeover
- Go shopping
- Comedy club
- Cooking class
- Beer tasting
- Zoo
- Dinner cruise
- Food tour
- Rock Climbing
- Kickboxing
- Jaz club
- Couples massage
- Watch a play
- Dance classes
Which one would you choose to spice up your date night this week!?
The Ultimate Travel Guide For Families
Traveling with kids is hard, but it doesn't have to be impossible. Check out the ultimate travel guide for families to see what you can do on your next trip!
The Ultimate Travel Guide For Families
The Rule Of Traveling With Kids: KISSAs parents we want to try and think of every possible situation that could come up when traveling. The problem is that means we end up taking an obscene amount of things with us. Or you end up like my poor husband and end up carrying it all while waiting for the flight because the kids have decided they can't carry anything and your wife is carrying three kids...Instead of trying to fit your entire house into your luggage remember one thing.Keep It Simple Silly
5 Things To Do So Your Kids Won't Lose Their *$&# On The Plane
Walk Up And Down The Aisle.
Sometimes your kids could be feeling to cooped up on the airplane. Give them a little break from sitting by letting them walk up and down the aisles. My kids love it and always make a few friends!
Keep Their Toys Novel.
Give them a new activity every so often on the plane rather than everything as soon as they sit down. It keeps the toys novel and keeps them engaged in their toys longer. Or if you're letting them watch a movie, get a brand new movie they haven't seen before. Keep whatever it is novel and they'll be more interested.
Wear Comfy Clothes.
Nothings worse than sitting on a long flight in uncomfortable clothes. Set your kids up for success by putting them in cozy clothes. If it's an early morning flight, pj's all the way. Or if it's during the day think comfortable.
Ignore The People Around You.
People will inevitably stare at you. If their parents, they somehow forgot what it felt like to have a kid on an airplane. Or maybe their kids were the model of perfection... Yeah right. All you can do is ignore them. If you let them stress you out, your kids will smell your fear and use it as an excuse to lose their minds!
GET GUM!
It doesn't matter if your a crunchy mom that doesn't want their kids chewing sugary gum, you want them doing exactly that while flying. I've made the mistake of not doing this and felt horrible the entire flight as my child cried in pain! Get them some gum to CHEW during take off and landing, a sippy cup, sucker, or a pacifier. Anything you can find to get them to suck on something to pop their ears.
Must Have Travel Items
As your'e trying to decide on what essentials you actually need on the flight, take a look at these.These are a few of our families favorite travel must haves! The headphones are my favorite! We've tried so many, but these are great! They're cozy and the kids fall asleep with them on all the time!Disney Store Limited Drinks & Snacks Bottle J World New York Sunny Rolling Backpack Disney Store Frozen Fever Plastic Snack Drink Cup Cozyphones Kids HeadphonesMarvel Boys' Avengers 12 Inch Rolling BackpackPhil&Teds Lobster HighchairBRICA Fold N' Go Travel BassinetErgobaby Original 3 Position Baby CarrierContigo Trekker Kids Water Bottle WeeSprout Reusable Double Zipper Food Pouch
What are your tips for traveling with a family?
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How To Fight Jet Lag Naturally
Traveling with a family is tough work. My husband and I have taken our kids on dozens of trips around the US and each one is equally difficult, hilarious, and exhausting. Even the simple trips can be intense! My last trip with the kids can be summed up in a few words... two spilled Starbucks drinks, a crying baby, an exhausted momma, and jet lag! Jet lag makes it all worse. Even just a few hours can throw kids into a tail spin for weeks! Here are a few ways you can fight jet lag naturally so you can actually enjoy your trip!
Tips For Fighting Jet Lag
Your first reaction when you want to fight jet lag is to load up on the caffeine. Or maybe you think sleeping all day will help... The truth is both of these will only make your jet lag exponentially worse. The best thing you can do is fight jet lag naturally.
Stick To Your Normal Routine
One of the most important things you need to do when traveling is stick to your normal schedule. It's easy to think you want to let things like nap and bed times slide, but it's the worst thing you can do. It's hard enough to train your body to stick to the new times, but sticking to the same routine during the day will help your body adjust. Timers are your best friend when you want to fight jet lag naturally.
Try To Adjust On The Plane
If you're going to encounter a large time difference, try and adjust on the plane. Whether that means staying awake the whole time or sleeping for the entire flight. Do your best to get it all done and over with while you're flying to you're not doing it your first day on your trip.
Eat Before You Go To Bed
One of the biggest reasons people end up waking up in the middle of the night when dealing with jet lag is that they're hungry. Their stomachs wake them up so they can get something to eat. Be sure to have a snack before you go to bed to make sure you don't wake up hungry.
Keep Your Body Moving During The Day
When you need to fight jet lag naturally you need to avoid things like caffeine. The problem is your body starts to get tired and all you want to do it go lay on the couch. Instead you need to keep your body active. Schedule things like site seeing and different activities during the day.
Limit Naps
When you're exhausted all you want to do is take a dozen cat naps throughout the day. The problem is that your body is trying to figure out what time it is and if you sleep throughout the day it's going to take even longer to acclimate. Resist the urge to nap during the day.
Keep Your Room Dark While Sleeping
After doing your best to stay awake all day, you're more than happy to lay your head down on the pillow at night. The problem comes the next morning. The moment the sun comes out your body thinks it's time to wake up. Even if it is only 5 in the morning. The best thing you can do is to set up a dark room to sleep in. It will help trick your body to adjust to the new time.
Wouldn't You Rather Fight Jet Lag Naturally?
Whether you're dealing with a 1 hour time difference or 13, it's tough on your body. It takes it time to adjust but you can fight jet lag naturally. You don't have to load up on caffeine and energy drinks to try and keep your eye lids open. In the end caffeine only makes you feel like garbage on top of being wiped out.By being willing to fight jet lag naturally, you can spend your trip feeling great and enjoying your new surroundings rather than trying to play catch up on sleep the whole time!
How Do You Fight Jet Lag Naturally?
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Karahi Chicken: Indian Spiced Chicken Recipe
As promised, I'm back with more delicious Indian recipes from Shan Foods! Last month I shared their tasty Pav Bhaji recipe with you and it was a hit! I've had many of you tell me you tried it and loved it! I can't wait to hear what you think of Karahi Chicken!
This post is sponsored by Shan Foods. As always all opinions are my own.
I've developed such a deep love for Indian food over the years. I love all the spices that are infused with each bite.
The ability to learn about my husband's culture through food has been what fueled my love. I wanted to learn how to make Indian food so that my husband could share his memories of it growing up and start our own memories with our kids.
My kids are obsessed with Indian food and ask for it everyday! The hard thing is that traditional Indian food can take hours to prepare. With three kids and a traveling spouse, I rarely have the time.
This is why I love Shan Foods! They have made it so easy! Instead of hours it's done quickly! Not to mention it's so easy! They've done all the hard work and have given us traditional Indian dishes!
Whether you're new to Indian food or have been making it for years, Shan Foods can help!
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*All Shan Foods packets can be purchased from your local Indian grocery store*
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What's your favorite Indian dish?
40 Things Kids Think About During Nap Time
40 Things Kids Think About During Nap Time
Nap time used to be my favorite time of the day.It meant a relaxing break from the chaos of the day. Now, my two big kids think they're too big for nap time. Instead of happily going to bed like their baby brother, they try to get out of it the whole time!Not to mention they act like they've never had a drink of water in their lives.I get tempted to let them drop their nap, but they are so much happier after they finally give in and take one. I've always wondered what goes through their minds while they lay in their beds.What is it that keeps them up for SO LONG!Here are a few things I'm sure go through my kids heads when they're trying to take a nap! What would you add to the list?
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Ooh I forgot to get a drink of water.
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Hmm.. I don't think I have to pee, but I'm going to try anyways.
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Mom said I cant go to the bathroom during nap time anymore!
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What if I really do have to pee!?
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I'm thirsty.
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Bedtime is so boring!
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I'm too big to take naps!
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I'll never fall asleep.
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Only babies take naps.
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I'm really thirsty.
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Where is that toy I played with yesterday?
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Mom's making me so mad!
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Why can't I just get up!
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Mom's up.
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Mom's not taking a nap.
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I'm so thirsty!
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I have to pee!
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Oooh. Mom got really mad!
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I should go down and tell her I love her.
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She didn't want to hear it!
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She's so mean!
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I'M THIRSTY!
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I hate naps!
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I haven't eaten all day!
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Mom said I just had lunch and I think she's lying.
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I'm starving.
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I'm SO THIRSTY!
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Why won't she just let me get up!
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OK. I'm going to ask one more time.
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Mom's not taking a nap because she's not a baby!
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I'm not a baby!
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I haven't had anything to drink in SO LONG!
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I should see if my brother is sleeping.
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HE'S READING BOOKS!
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MOM!!!!!!!!
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I'm never getting out of here!
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I hate this room!
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This is why I never play in here!
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Mmmm. I'm getting really sleepy...
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I'm thirs........ zzzzzzzzz
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Raising Grateful Children: Thank You For My Siblings!
Have you ever wondered if you're raising grateful children? If your children are grateful for the people they love in their lives? Here are a few things you can start doing today to make sure you're raising grateful children!
Raising Grateful ChildrenI don't know what it is, but have you ever noticed that every time you need to make an important phone call your kids go crazy?This afternoon I had to call my health insurance company. I only had an hour before they closed and I figured I would try and call while my two youngest were napping. They usually answer pretty quickly so I thought I could get it all done before my boys woke up.After about 15 minutes on hold I realized quick wasn't in the cards for today.Then my three year old woke up and thought it would be helpful to wake up his baby brother. I went up there, phone up to my ear, to grab them. Baby Luke's crib was full of toys along with a 3 year old big brother.They were both grinning ear to ear and loving their mischievousness!I ended up letting them destroy their room so I could finish my supposedly "quick" phone call. I have to admit, I love that they're getting closer.It's one of the reasons I wanted to have my kids so close together. I knew it would come with it's own set of craziness, but it would be worth it. I wanted my kids to be close.I was worried in the beginning because all my boys would do was fight! My husband and I joked about their love-hate relationship, but deep down I was worried they wouldn't be as close as I hoped. Now that they're a bit older, I'm starting to see how deep their brotherly bond really is.
They all look to each other for approval, wanting to make sure their brothers think they're doing something amazing. The best is while we sit down for meals. They start telling jokes and instantly look to make sure their brothers are laughing at them! Even Baby Lucas joins in! No one knows what he actually says, but they love that he's trying and think his' hilarious!I want them to continue getting closer as they get older.I want my kids to be best friends.
3 Ways To Ensure You're Raising Grateful Children
This month, I want my kids to take a moment to be grateful for their siblings. The more they learn what they love and value in each other, the closer they'll be.
Lead By Example
If we want to teach our kids to be grateful, we have to start by being grateful ourselves. Kids are always looking to their parents to figure out what to do. If they can see us being grateful and loving to those around us, they'll follow suit.Parents can model gratitude by verbally expressing it, sending thank you notes, and even giving little gifts.Remind your kids how important to be thankful for people they love and talk to them about it. Let them know why you're thankful for them!
Create A Habit
Instead of being grateful once a year on Thanksgiving, make it a year long routine. Create a habit in your home to talk about what your thankful for. Whether it's over dinner each night, as you tuck your kids in bed, or on the way home from a busy day.It doesn't matter when you do it, just do it. Create those conversations early on so they become normal.
Sibling Dates
As your kids watch you leading a grateful life and a let it become a habit in their own, it will quickly start to affect their relationships with their siblings.You can foster their relationships with each other more by letting them have sibling dates!Do something fun and take them to a movie! Let them choose what they want to see together and their snacks! Or let them come up with their date night on their own. Encourage them to have fun thinking up the whole night and what they're going to do.The most important thing you can do as a parent is to help your children build strong relationships with each other.These relationships are going to last for their entire lives. By helping your kids learn how to be grateful for each other, you're making sure they have a strong foundation that can last through it all.