What Your Biracial Child Brings To School For Lunch Reveals More Than You Think
What Your Biracial Child Brings To School For Lunch Reveals More Than You Think
Over the last few years, my oldest son Liam has developed a huge love for leftovers. I don't know what it is, but every day around lunch time he asks what left overs we have. If by some chance we're out, he begs me to make leftovers...He doesn't just want a quick sandwich, he wants good food. He wants me to list out all the leftover options and gets excited to choose. I guess it's kind of like an international buffet at our house. We usually have pasta or Indian food like chicken curry. He's so obsessed with left overs that he started asking if he could bring left overs to school while we were visiting his cousins.Mom, will you send me left overs when I go to first grade next year?Now, his cousins are half Indian just like my kids are. They understand the multiracial dynamic because they're living it too! They're currently in elementary school and have plenty of thoughts on bringing left overs to school!
Their cousins are very comfortable in their biracial identity.
They've been to India, understand some Telugu, wear Indian clothes to events, and so on. They're also blessed with a momma that makes Indian food constantly and a daddy who makes comfort American food.I guess I assumed they'd want to bring their favorite dishes to school with them, but when I started asking them their answers surprised me.One of them told me they bring Indian food to school every single day. I wasn't surprised about this one because I've seen her devour a plate of tandoori chicken and I know how much she likes it.However, the other two said they won't bring Indian food to school and went on to tell me what their classmates have said about it in the past. Indian food has a distinct smell and their friends made fun of it. They hysterically laughed asking how they could eat that stuff.They only endured their friends bullying one time and decided then and there that they wouldn't bring Indian food to school anymore. Now, these kids love Indian food, but it wasn't worth being made fun of.
You guys, kids can be mean.
It broke my heart that they don't bring Indian food to school because of what people may say.I looked to their sibling and asked why she doesn't let her friend's bullying stop her from bringing Indian food to school. Her response was beautiful.I don't care what they say. At least I eat my favorite food every day.Boom! She hardly flinched when she said that and it's stuck with me since. I want my boys to have the same approach.As biracial kids, it's hard to be set apart. While most kids bring a PBJ to school, some kids bring traditional Indian left overs. There's nothing wrong with that! They bring what they would normally eat at home and it should be enough.It breaks my heart that kids bully each other over things they just don't understand. They look at an international dish and assume it's gross because they're not used to it.I hope and pray my kids won't let their friends determine what they bring to school for lunch.
I hope their pride and confidence in who they are helps them shrug off friend's comments.
This is why it's so important to me to have people over for Indian food and to eat with our hands. It shows our kids we won't grab a utensil just because our own friends may say something. Traditionally, you eat Indian food with your right hand in India and we do the same thing in out family.We also offer our kids and their friend's Indian treats during the day. Then we're right there if their friends say something and can gently encourage our kids to explain what it is and offer their friends some.Growing up a biracial child can bring about some unique challenges, but as a parent, I hope I can help them to build a strong identity that isn't rocked by what other people ignorantly say.
Have your kids every experienced this? If so what did you do?
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Baked Chicken Tandoori Recipe
Are you looking for a healthy recipe to try out for dinner this week? This bakes chicken tandoori dish is just what you're looking for! Get the recipe below.
This post is sponsored by Shan Foods. As always all opinions are my own.
Simple Dinner For A Busy Family
Yesterday morning the family and I woke up and were surprised to see our yard covered in snow! I thought I moved away from the freezing cold, but North Carolina decided to throw us a curveball. Although the snow here is completely different than snow in Chicago.We went to church with a snow covered house and came back to no snow at all! Within just a few short hours the snow had melted and we were back to normal.Even though the snow was gone, it was still chilly outside. I started racking my brain to think of the perfect warm dish to prepare for dinner.Then it came to me. Tandoori Chicken...
Admit it... You're mouth is watering! This is such a simple dish. You can fire up your grill and make it while enjoying the sun shine or you can bake it in the oven. I've prepared it both ways and either way it's delicious!We serve ours with fresh red onions, raita, and way too much rice.The kids immediately flocked to the kitchen when they started smelling fresh tandoori chicken baking in the oven.
Tandoori chicken is a popular dish in our house.The kids quickly devour their first helping and beg for more. If we get to the last piece, they all start fighting over it. Even daddy jumps in and tries to plead his case on why he deserves the last piece of chicken.He usually loses and somehow the baby gives everyone a look that seals his fate and he enjoys the last piece.
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Have you ever tried Tandoori Chicken?
Apparently I've Become A Soccer Mom
My New Proud Title, Soccer Mom!
It happened. This week I officially became a soccer mom and a football mom! Both of my older kids started up sports this month and our life has definitely changed. Our house is cluttered with sports gear every day, our backyard has cones and nets, and our kids are begging to wear their uniforms all the time!Before I had kids, I was always hearing little jokes about being a soccer mom. It was usually references to what they wore or what their hair looked like. Now that I'm here.. they can make all the jokes they want! I love it! I'll even be the mom wearing their uniforms each week! OK maybe not they're uniform, but one in my size!I love the atmosphere when you go to a kid's game. The sidelines are filled with proud parents and kids are constantly looking to see what they're parents are doing. I'm pretty sure my four year old was looking to make sure I didn't move!
My Little Soccer Star
Levi, my four year old had the most free spirited game by far. He's in a four year old instructional league. Most of them are just trying to figure our how to kick a ball down the field and which goal is theres.Our kids play different sports at home, but this is the first time there is a competitive edge. It really helps you to see what sport they're passionate about. After watching Levi play in his first soccer game, I can officially say... I have no clue if we'll do it again next year!
Most of the time he danced, pranced, or crawled around on the field. He had more fun doing that than running after the ball. Granted he wasn't the only wanderer during the game, but I think I laughed the entire game.The picture above is him hanging out in the other team's net! He had more fun observing and being silly and to be honest it was such a perfect picture of his personality. Even though his team was losing, he wasn't bothered in the slightest. He was just making everyone smile!I don't know if he is a future soccer star, but I do know he's going to have fun finding what he's passionate about!
My Little Football Champ
Now, onto the football champ. I can't get over how cute they both looked in their uniforms! Especially Liam because he uniform is so big on him! He swims in it! It's a good reminder that he's the youngest on the team. It's a 6-8 year old league, but they let you play up a year. So, even though he's 5 they let him play in the 6 year old league. I expected there to be more 5 year olds, but nope!I think he'll be fine. He can handle his own with football and it's going to teach him a lot. Plus, he has an August birthday which means he's the youngest in most things. He's used to it and didn't seem intimidated at all.
Both of the kids had games at the same time so I ended up running back and forth to take pictures of both their games. I was looking through my pictures today and almost all of them are of the kids playing with their mouth guards!I think they felt really big having them and they probably feel really weird! I couldn't imagine having to play a game with a mouth guard in my mouth the whole time. Well, they don't seem to mind at all!
Being a soccer and football mom is so much fun. I've only been in this new season of our lives for a few weeks, but I'm already loving it! I love cheering them on from the sidelines!Be sure to follow me on Instagram so you can check us out each week at the kid's games!
Family Friendly Ways To Celebrate Women's History Month
Women's History Month Is For Everyone!
Women's history month has always been a special day to me. I grew up with a strong, single mother who took care of my brother and I. She made hard choices every day to make sure she was raising us the best way she could. She worked full time so we would have food on the table, made sure to be at every one of our extracurricular events, and showed us that women can do anything they set their minds to.Even now, I'm still inspired by her strength.She is a big part of why I am who I am today. She showed me that women can do anything, just how strong one person can be, and how to be an amazing mother.This is just one of many reasons Women's History Month means so much to me. We celebrate women all throughout March so the world doesn't forget what women have done throughout history.As a mother to three boys, Women's History Month looks a little different in our house. I don't have little girls to celebrate this month with and to teach them how they can be empowered by all of the strong women throughout history.Instead I have three little boys and this month is an opportunity to teach them to appreciate women. I want to raise boys that understand how to treat a woman, how to value a woman, and how to encourage other men to do the same thing.
Ways To Celebrate Women's History Month
Throughout the month of March, my family and I are finding different ways to celebrate women. We're going to dive into history and learn about strong and influential women and here are a few ways we plan on doing so and you should too.
Read Books About Powerful Women
Head to your local library or pick up a few books from Amazon that feature strong female characters. There are so many books out there right now that teach kids what women have done over the years. Mom and dad, you'll appreciate everything you learn too! Reading about these strong women will remind you exactly what this month is all about.A few of our favorite books on Women's History are Seeds Of Change, Step Stomp Stride, My Name Is Not Isabella: Just How Big A Little Girl Can Dream, Amelia and Eleanor Go For A Ride, Betsy Ross, and Susan B. Anthony.
Attend A Women's History Month Event In Your Neighborhood
Most towns will be holding different women's history events throughout the month of March. Look up on your town's website and find out the dates. These events are fun and typically free! Take the whole family and have a great time!
Talk To Your Child About Powerful Women In Their Life
Sit down with your kids over dinner and talk to them about powerful women in their lives. Tell your kids how they've inspired you. Find out who they've been inspired by and why. This is a great dialogue to have throughout the whole month.
Introduce Your Child To A New Powerful Woman In History Each Week
Take some time and choose a few women to really dive deep and learn about this month. Each week you can learn about what monumental way they contributed to history, a bit about their life, and what it means to your kids. Find out how life would have been different if they hadn't done what they did.
Watch A Movie
There are so many amazing movies out there that are talking about strong women in history. Take some time and find a few that your whole family would love. Cozy up on the couch with some popcorn and be inspired by these influential women!
Make Dinner For Mom And Say Thank You
Last, but not least, thank the influential women in your life. Or (dads this one is for YOU) make your kid's momma dinner. Remind your kids just how important their momma is and how they can appreciate her every day.
How will you be celebrating Women's History Month?
Toddler Approved Chores!
Are you looking for age appropriate chores for your family? This is a killer list of simple chores! Check it out and let us know your favorite!
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Trying To Keep Up With The Mess
Life with three little boys under six years old is messy to say the least. These little boys attract dirt. I don't know how they do it, but they do. They have so much energy and everything they do somehow causes a big mess.They go play in their room... dump out all the toys.They go outside to jump on the trampoline... sneak all the pillows onto it.They eat lunch... more ends up on their clothes and table than in their mouths.They go to the bathroom... somehow miss the bowl EVERY TIME... (Seriously boys are gross).You tell them to play nicely while you switch laundry over (or restart the same load in the wash)... they decide it's the perfect time to get into your makeup.I could go on and on. They live to make those messes. While it drives me crazy cleaning it up, I can't expect them to sit still all day and be mess free. The look on their faces when they build their trampoline obstacle course is priceless.I love seeing their little imaginations go, however it doesn't mean mommy and daddy have to clean it all up.
Chore Time!
After finally realizing the idea of keeping my house clean all day just wasn't possible, I knew I had to do something. I refused to spend my whole day cleaning up their monstrous messes while they watch PJ Masks on the TV.But were they ready for chores?Were they too young?No way! My husband and I sat down and made a huge list of chores that needed to get done around the house. We even took some of the bigger chores and broke them down into simple steps.If your kids are walking and talking, they can clean up a mess.You'll thank me when you're the one sitting on the couch, drinking a juice box, watching Moana as they clean up their mess in the living room.Chores are a great way to teach your children responsibility at any age. They quickly realize the messes they make need to get cleaned up in the end. Plus, no momma or daddy should be doing all the cleaning in the house.As a family, you are all responsible to to take part in keeping it up.
Our Favorite Toddler Chores
These are a few of my family's favorite chores for our kids. I have a 2, 4, and 5 year old. Over the years we've had to find chores that work well for each of them and their ages.I even stopped by my son's preschool to ask the teacher for some ideas. They were great! Not to mention it spreads the load out at home.
How do you get your kids excited about chores?
Finding age appropriate chores is one thing, but getting your kids to actually do them is another. After a lot of trial and error (and a bit of yelling) we found the solution!We picked up a chore chart! This chore chart is great because you can change them out whenever you need to.Each week they work for something else. Sometimes they doing chores to work towards a family movie and other times we let them go and choose a small toy.They love looking to their chart to see how close they are to their goal! It's a great visual reminder and positive reinforcement. Every time they do a chore, they run to the board to put up a new magnet!
What is your favorite toddler approved chore?
Celebrating Holi By Making It Colorful
This post is brought to you by Tea India. As always all opinions are my own.
How You Can Celebrate Holi
As spring is approaching, many Indian families around the world are getting excited. It means it's almost time for Holi, the Festival of Colors! This holiday has been making its way to the US as some colleges are even starting to celebrate it on their own!It's an opportunity for people to put down their differences and have some fun! During Holi week kids play pranks, colorful powder is thrown (or a color war if you're in our house!), and people are celebrating good over evil.As multicultural families, this holiday may look different to all of us. You may not know about the religious background to the holiday and that's ok. This is a great opportunity to teach your family about the world around them.As parents, we're raising global citizens. We have the opportunity to challenge hate and racism in the world by informing our kids. We can teach our kids about different holidays, customs, and ways of life. Holi is the perfect holiday to teach your kids about!It's all about love and celebration.
Colorful Activities
Another name for Holi is the Festival of Colors so as you can imagine, it's all about color! The time of year it's celebrated alone is all about flowers blooming and life starting fresh.There are so many ways you can teach your family about the Festival of Colors. Here are a few activities my kids love doing around this time of year.
Good Food
One of my family's traditions during Holi week is to prepare a delicious batch of Indian donuts. They're super fun and easy to make with the whole family! I swear my kids have a different sense just for Indian donuts because the second they smell them cooking they come running!
Celebrate Holi With Tea India
I've joined with Tea India today to see how we can help you #makeitcolorful! Whether this is your first time celebrating Holi or your family does every year, we want to see how you're celebrating!Be sure to share your traditions and don't forget to tag us!
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I Was A Parenting Expert Before I Had Kids
I Was A Parenting Expert Before I Had Kids
I remember the conversations I used to have with my mom and aunt before I had kids. I would tell them all of my extraordinary plans for my children and I listed off all my ideas. I assumed since I had babysat the neighbors kids since I was ten years old, I'd be a perfect parent.I'd let my kids watch whatever they wanted because they'd be fine.They would never have tantrums in the middle of a Target aisle because I'd discipline them. They'd know better.The list went on and on. To my benefit I was twenty and thought I knew everything. Then I had three kids two years apart and realized things were much different than I thought they'd be.We've all been there. We let our kids do something and think to ourselves... wow. I swore I'd never do this, but I have no shame!
Things I Never Thought I'd Do As A Parent
Let my kids stay up until I went to bed.Let my kids eat candy.Tell my kids not to eat their boogers.Ask my son not to pee on his brother.Debate with my child over whether or not he's the boss.Let my kids sleep in my bed.Let my kids eat Goldfish crackers for dinner.Be tempted to not know my kids in public when they're being TERRIBLE!Have kids that throw huge, meltdown, throw themselves on the floor tantrums while in a store.Let my kids run around the backyard naked.Sleep in a shirt covered in newborn spit up.Be able to survive on a few brief moments of sleep.Hide in the bathroom from the kids so I can hear myself think.Love going grocery shopping alone.Not be able to survive without caffeine.Go to bed at 8pm.Actually enjoy kid's movies. Oops I've always loved them.Had three kids and thought hey, I can do one more.Leave a cart full of groceries because the kids just can't keep their #@$# together.Truly think my kids are funnier than every other kid.Sleep in newborn pee covered sheets because I just didn't care enough to loose even more sleep.Eat Goldfish for dinner because I didn't want to cook.Have to explain to my son why you shouldn't pee in your own eye.Have to fish an apple out of the toilet.Have to disappoint my child when I let them know Jesus doesn't live in their belly button.Have to stop my son mid stream when I find him peeing in a gatorade bottle.Pull my kids into my bed while daddy is away on a work trip and mommy is scared.Send my kids to fight off spiders while I scream from the couch.Feel a little heartbroken when my kids choose to play with their friends over their own mom.Get completely enraged when someone tells me my son is naughty.Realize my kids can be naughtier than I thought possible.Come down to see my son covered in makeup.Yell at my kids. A lot.Quietly crawl out of my kids room because they finally fell asleep and I want to join the world of grownups.Crave adult conversations so much that I go to Target as often as possible.Try to convince my husband to see a new Disney movie rather than the new action movie. Walk around the house singing the theme song to my kid's favorite morning cartoons.
What is one thing you've done after having kids that you swore you wouldn't?
6 Places Parents Can Find Refuge From Their Kids
Sometimes My Kids Drive Me A Little Crazy
Let's all take a moment and be honest with each other. Parent to parent. Sometimes you just need a break from your kids. Sometimes the, "mommy mommy MOMMY, " just gets to you. As a stay at home mom, I'm with my kids all day every day. While it is a huge blessing and I do love that I'm able to, it's hard to find a moment of solitude. Especially now that my oldest has decided he's done with naps.Our days tend to get a little chaotic to say the least.
A Little Peak At Our Day
6-7:30 am- Kids wake up and watch cartoons in mommy and daddy's bed7:30-8:30 am- Breakfast and daddy leaves8:30-12:30 Mommy does school with the kids, attempts to keep the them busy, and makes them lunch12:30-2:30 Nap for little kids and chaos for big brother2:30-4:30 Kids argue, play, argue, beg for dinner, and make a big mess4:30-5:30 Mom attempts to make dinner while kids beg for attention and food5:30-6:30 Dinner time and playing with daddy6:30-7:30 Kids get ready for bed, make a mess, clean up their mess, go to bed, and ask for a dozen drinks of waterThe next day we start it all over again.As you can see there isn't much time at all where momma gets any alone time. All day long my kids are right there next to me. Don't get me long, I love my time with my kids. I really do. The part that drives me crazy is the whining.I know you can all understand seeing as the number one show most hated by parents is Caillou. The reason behind all the hate is his whiny voice! Ahh. It just makes me cringe and it's the exact same feeling I have when my own kids whine.It's for this reason and a few others that this momma needs to find a little refuge during the day.
6 Places Parents Can Find Refuge From Their Kids
When things get a little crazy in our house I have a few places I use to get away from it all.
The Bathroom
I'm pretty sure the guys beat us to this one. No one has to get to the bathroom for that long... They know what they're doing. They're hiding from everyone in there! They grab their phone and use it as a bit of solitude.One of the best parts of this location is that there is a lock on the door. Even if your kids find you, they can't get to you!
The Kid's Room
If your kids are anything like mine, the last place they want to play is there own room. Finding them playing in their room is a miracle. If mom and dad happen to ask them to play there... they act like we're torturing them.How could you ask us to do that!?This is exactly why it's the best place to hide from them. It's the last place they'll look!
The Kitchen Floor
Sometimes, you can't manage to get anywhere else so you just plop yourself down on the kitchen floor. If you're lucky, they don't look in the actual kitchen. They usually just glance and move on. If I'm being honest, this is my go to spot when things get crazy at night.My husband has found me here more times than I'd like to admit!
The Shower
The moment I put my little monkey's to bed, I hop in the shower. First of all, it's relaxing and the perfect way to destress. Second of all, it means the hubby has to deal with the kids if they get out of bed. Momma is unavailable and daddy is the only one that can walk to them to their bed a few dozen times.Unless your husband gets wise to your plan and throws a naked baby into your shower with you...
The Car
I love car rides with my kids. They typically don't mind them and almost always fall asleep. Seriously, think about it. All the kids are strapped in and can't get into anything. If they're lucky they have something to play with to keep them busy.If all else fails, turn the music up.
Grocery Shopping
This was my go to hide out when my husband was traveling for work. He would come back from a long trip and the first thing I would do is take a drive to the grocery store. It didn't matter what I needed, I would walk up and down every aisle and just enjoy the peace.
What's your go to place you find refuge from your kids?
Screen Free Activities For The Whole Family
How To Unplug Your Family
Over the years screen time has become a normal part of our daily lives. We have our TV's on for big chunks of the day, sit on our phones, or let the kids play video games. There is a time and place for all of it, but how many hours do you spend with a screen in front of you?I challenge you to sit down for one day and track how much. You may not even realize how much it is.My biggest downfall is my phone. I may turn the TV off for the kids, but then I sit there working on my phone or scrolling through Facebook. It's nice to have a break from the chaotic day, but then reality hit me this week.My son came up to talk to me while I was on my phone. I didn't think twice about it because I was just looking through a few emails while he talked to me. Then he stormed away and I'm ashamed to say it took me a while to know he was upset.I finally noticed and went upstairs to see what he was doing. I found him pouting on his bed. I asked him what was wrong.Mom, you're not even listening to me! I was telling you something and all you cared about was your phone.It was like he punched me right in the gut. I felt terrible. The email could have waited but instead, I chose to put it first and my son felt it.As parents, we're busy all day. Whether you're at work or working in the house it gets busy. Technology has made our lives a lot easier. We have TV for entertainment, phones for pretty much everything, and so much more.The problem is that technology can get in the way of real human connection.I will be honest with all of you and admit that this isn't the first time this has happened. I have so many things on my plate and I tend to try and do it all at the same time.This year I'm challenging myself and my family to unplug.By unplugging we will be putting our relationships with each other first. I encourage you to join us! Unplugging will look different for all of us. My husband works 9-5 so during that time he has to be plugged in and that's ok. Look at your family's schedule and see where you have the ability to unplug.The kids and I try to unplug in the mornings so we can enjoy breakfast together and then do something fun. Then while they're asleep I take a bit of time to plug back in and get work done.
Screen Free Routines
Take a look at your daily routine and find opportunities to turn off the screens and unplug.
Enjoy Dinner Around The Dinner Table
Collect all the cell phones in the house and put them aside during dinner. This will mean your family actually has to talk during dinner and spend real quality time together.
Schedule Technology Free Times
Look at your schedule during the day and find a few blocks of time that you can schedule yourself to be "off the grid." Turn off the TV, set the phone down, and just enjoy time with your family.
Put The Phone Down When Talking To Your Kids
This is my biggest struggle. When your kids come up and talk to you make sure you put the phone down. The same goes for everyone else. Show people you value them by putting them first in that moment.
Screen Free Activites For The Whole Family
Family Walks
Make Dinner Together
Go On A Scavenger Hunt
Try Something New Together
Family Band!
Board Games
Treasure Hunt
Follow The Leader
What's your favorite screen-free activity?
You Know You're A Parent If...
Being a parent is a whole new level of crazy.
It's exactly why you tend to surround yourself with other parents. You need people who just get it! You need friends that know exactly why you've worn the same shirt for three days in a row and don't judge you.
A parent is the only one who will truly understand how you feel because they've been there themselves! They instantly understand how crazy your morning is after your son decides to flush his apple down the toilet or when your kids unravel every toilet paper roll because they needed it to create a bad guy trap.
10 Feelings Every Parent Has Felt
In addition to our crazy stories there are also a few feelings every parent has experienced.
Disbelief
Pure Shock
Disgust
Pull Out Your Hair Frustration
Exhaustion
I've Had Enough!
Losing Your Mind
Justice
Fed Up
Proud
You know you're a parent if... Finish the sentence in the comments!
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Vermicelli Kheer Recipe
The Dessert My Family Can't Get Enough Of
Dessert in my house is my children's family meal... Wait. No, that's a lie. It's my whole family's favorite meal!We look forward to it because we always make something delicious. It used to be once a week or so and now we have fun creating our little dessert concoctions each night.I love preparing the dishes with my kids. It's probably because I have countless memories making dessert with my mom as a kid. She was a single mom at the time and she knew how to make it special. We would make cookies, eagerly waiting to lick the beaters.Now, I get to carry on these same traditions with my little boys.
Simple Vermicelli Kheer Dessert
Dessert overall is delicious, but Indian desserts... Come on. They're delicious!Lately we've been making kheer. It's a delicious and simple to make Indian rice pudding. You can make it with rice or vermicelli like we do.The best part is the day after we make it. We usually make enough for one night and a bit extra. The next day everyone starts hiding the leftovers in the fridge and by everyone I'm including my husband! He and the kids start hiding it behind whatever they can in the fridge so the rest of them thinks it's gone.Then the lucky winner sits down with a cold bowl of vermicelli kheer while the rest of them gawk and beg for a bite!
Shan Foods Makes It Simple!
When my husband and I first got married, I had every intention of making Indian food frequently throughout the week. Sadly, the reality was much different. Traditional Indian dishes can take hours or even an entire day to prepare.As a busy momma to three little ones, I just didn't have the time. I needed help. Then I discovered Shan Foods.They make it possible for anyone to make traditional Indian dishes in no time! A few of our favorites are pav bhaji, karahi chicken, butter chicken, and lahori fish fry.
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Enjoy Family Dinner With An Indian Fusion Cucumber Salad!
Dinner Time Is More Than Just A Meal
At the end of the day families start to wind down and put dinner on the table. Whether it's just you and your spouse or the entire family, dinner time is special.It's one thing most cultures across the globe agree on. Since marrying into an East Indian family, I've seen just how important meals are. Everything is created around them.Special events, birthday parties, engagement ceremonies..You name it and I bet you it's tied in with a big family meal. Dinner time isn't just about food, it's about community.
Creating memories together as a family.
As my kids are getting older, I'm finding it harder to have one on one time with them. We get so busy throughout the day with our own tasks that we forget to take time to spend with one another. It only gets more difficult as children get older.This is exactly why dinner time in our family is something we fight for. It would be easy to set up dinner in front of the TV and just relax from the chaotic day, but we choose not to. We choose to turn everything off and enjoy dinner together.It's the one time during the day that I have my children's undivided attention and they have mine.We've created memories around our dinner table. I look at it and see giggling children, silly conversations, and a happy family.Don't let life distract you from making memories with your family.What do you do during dinner time? Do you sit around the dinner table talking about your day? Do you ask silly questions like we do?
On The Table Tonight
Tonight, my family is enjoying delicious Bertolli® Chicken Florentine and Farfalle pasta served with a cumin and lemon cucumber salad. Can you say yum?!The best part of dinner tonight is that most of it is done for me! Bertolli® understands how busy families get and they don't want anything getting in the way of dinner time with the family. We picked up their family size pasta and simply had to fry it up on the stove.Within minutes it was done and the family started rushing into the kitchen asking what I was making.I even kicked things up a notch by adding in a refreshing salad.
Bring Bertolli® Into Your Home
Bertolli® understands how important meals are to the family. Their slogan even drives the message home!Don't just eat. Mangia! 
Mangia means eat in Italian. They're reminding families that dinner isn't just about good food. It's about having fun with your family and eating together.
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6 Lessons I Can Learn From My Single Self
Motherhood is beautiful and it's also one of the hardest things you'll ever do. Take a minute to learn from your younger self. 6 lessons I can learn from my single self.
Motherhood At It's Finest
Most women talk about the beauty in motherhood.The joys in pregnancy. Baby's first steps. Baby's first word. Watching your kids win awards at school. On the other hand, most women are ashamed to talk about the ugly side.Spit up on your favorite shirt. Sleepless nights. Tantrums. Miscarriage. Infertility.Motherhood is a beautiful, yet at times thankless job. In those moments, we need to take a lesson from our single selves.
6 Lessons I Can Learn From My Single Self
Get Dressed Up
Yes, even if you're just running to the grocery store. Throw on some lipgloss, a cute tunic and some leggings. Putting a little more effort into your appearance can change your outlook on your whole day.Don't believe me? Think back to the last time you got a compliment on your appearance (especially if you went through hell and high water to leave the house). I bet that made your day right?!Need some inspiration? Blast Beyoncé's All the Single Ladies while you get dressed!
Embrace Adult Interaction
This can be especially tough for stay at home moms with little kids. There's no shame in enrolling your kids in a half day Pre-K. Every mom needs a few hours of peace!Meet your girlfriend(s) for a coffee date at Chick-Fil-A or another kid friendly place.Talking to another adult gives you a break from Bubble Guppies & Paw Patrol.
Sit Down & Eat a Meal
You're probably standing up right now! Moms are on the go 24/6.We are running older kids to sports activities & music lessons, cooking dinner & assisting with homework & who knows what else.At dinner time while everyone else enjoys a meal, moms are often the ones standing. Take a load off, sit down & enjoy a meal with your family!
Take a Workout Class
When I was single, I lived for my weekly yoga, Zumba & kickboxing classes. I kept them up with my first child, but after adding a second baby to the family, the little extra time I had was spent either sleeping or catching up on housework.I miss the extra energy a work out class gave me.Now thanks to the ability to stream TV & YouTube, I often have a workout class in my living room.
Go Shopping & Buy Something For Yourself
When you were single, payday meant time for a manicure, lunch date with a friend, or a weekend getaway.Once you become a mom, every trip to the store ends up with things for your husband or the kids.Take some time to invest in yourself. Your family will thank you.
Go On a Date With Your Husband
Remember the thrill of finding the perfect date night outfit? It can be fun again! Don't wait until your anniversary to schedule a date with your other half.Your husband will thank you.
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Unusual Things I've Discovered About My Family While Moving
We're Moving... Again..
If you've known me for long, you know my family has a thing for moving around. Since my husband and I have been married we've lived in California, Washington, Illinois, and now we're about to set off on our next adventure.North Carolina!We're sad to be closing this chapter of our lives in Illinois, but excited for something new in North Carolina. Not to mention the relocation means my husband doesn't have to travel for work anywhere near as much as he did last year!The kids had mixed feelings about moving... That is until my husband told them he'd be home now and *drumroll please* we'd be getting a new dog...I'm pretty sure the marriage rulebook says you have to check with your wife BEFORE you bribe you kids with a pet of any kind.. Luckily, I love dogs and we're about to have a lot more space.Little does he know I'm planning my revenge. He may or may not come home from work one day only to be greeted by a pet of my choice that I decided to surprise him with.Hmmm.. What would I get? A kangaroo? No. A monkey! Not quite right yet. Don't worry, I'll think of one!
5 Things I've Learned While Moving
Our family is pretty used to packing up our house. Over the years we've landed on a common theme and it's that we have way too much stuff! This time around we decided to get rid of as much as we can to make things a little easier.While packing I've uncovered some unusual things about my family...
My Kids Don't Actually Need Their Toys
I did things a little backwards this time. I most of the kid's toys first. I was waiting for them to start losing their minds, but it never happened. They didn't care. I left out one of each of their favorite toys and boxed up the rest. Then something crazy happened!They started using their imaginations even more!Instead of dumping out all their toys, they run around the house playing bad guys and superheroes! It's a different theme every day but they're having fun.
I'm A Hoarder
I thought I've purged a lot over the years, but I was wrong. In the last two weeks I have done at least 6 trips to Goodwill and each time I had a full trunk. They must think I'm crazy there.How does this woman own so much!?I donate everything in the trunk and come home, only to look around and realize their is so much left!
My Kid's Have Secret Stashes Around The House
I've always known my three year old likes to keep a little secret stash. He's done this since he was little and hid his pacifiers around the house.His go to spot is under his pillow. My husband and I check it before we go to bed at night and we're always surprised! We've found scissors, permanent markers, candy, and toys. If you ask him him about it he just gives you his sly little look and says it's our present.As we've been packing up the house, I'm starting to find little stashes around the house! They're everywhere!
I Love Purging
I have fallen in love with purging! I gave myself one box to keep all of our sentimental items and then had a little routine with the rest. I made myself touch everything I own and then I asked myself if I really needed it. If I didn't need it or haven't touched it in 3 months it went straight to the donation box.I don't want to show up at our next home and have it filled with things we don't need. I want to look around and see things that bring me joy.Hopefully my kids feel the same way when we get to the new house and they see quite a few missing toys!
I May Just Keep All Of My Stuff Boxed Up
We're one day away from the moving POD coming and I feel good. We're living out of a suitcase and eating fast food, but I don't have to clean all day. There are only a few things left which means the kids play with them and bring them with them.I'm not cleaning up after them all day or doing a tower of never ending dishes.I may just tell the POD to keep all of our stuff and just drop off the furniture!
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What unusual things have you discovered about your family while moving?
How To Simplify Your Children's Bedtime Routine
Simplify your children's bedtime routine with a few simple steps! Then you can spice up your evenings with a free Game Story printable!
Our bedtime routine.
6:30 Turn off any shows the kids may be watching and send them upstairs to get ready for bed. While the big kids are brushing teeth and getting on their jammies I start getting my youngest ready. After he's cozy and ready I lather him up in lavender and coconut oil. I just started doing this with all of my kids before bed and it's been a game changer. It helps them all to calm down and has been helping my oldest with his bad dreams.
7:00 My youngest gets smothered in kisses, we pray, and then he goes to bed. He's the easiest to put down to sleep because he loves bed time. I kid you not, he actually loves it. All you have to do is tell him it's bed time, he gets his blankey, and starts to climb upstairs.
Then I go to my big kids room only to find my older kids not ready for bed yet. It doesn't matter that I asked them to get ready. They tend to be playing hide and seek or jumping on their beds (trying to stay away from the lava.) I remind them, for the countless time to get ready for bed. After a bit of help, they get ready and race into their room.
7:30 This is my kids favorite part of the night. Game story. We all pile into one of our kids beds and get our creative juices flowing. Everyone starts to jump in saying who gets to start the story. It usually ends up being my husband or myself.
Game story rules: Each person gets to tell a small portion of the story. After someone takes their turn, the next person will start off where they stopped.
Game story has become a family tradition in our house. We even include any houseguests we may have.
8:00 We tuck the kids in bed, give them kisses, turn on their clock night light, and close their door.
8:02 The kids ask for a drink of water.
8:03 The kids ask for another drink of water.
Our Bedtime Routine Essentials
Blanket / Coconut Oil / Kid's Clock / Game Story Printable
What does your bed time routine look like?
Coconut Chana Masala Recipe
Check out today's Coconut Chana Masala recipe! It's a simple vegan recipe that's perfect for a delicious weeknight meal!
This post is sponsored by Shan Foods. As always, all opinions are my own!
Vegan Coconut Chana Masala
As one of my families New Year's resolutions, we're trying to eat healthier! We tend to get busy throughout the week and take out seems like the only solution.We started out the month strong by cooking all of our meals at home. Then life happened and spending an hour making dinner just wasn't working for us. I'm sure all of you can relate!So, how can we stick to our New Year's resolution and make something quick at the same time?Shan Foods is here to help! They have so many quick and healthy dishes that can help you succeed with this year's goals! A few of my top favorites are Korma Curry, Nihari, Achar Gosht curry, Daal, and today's lovely dish.Today, I'm showing off one of my go to family's meals. This dish couldn't be any easier!
Coconut Chana Masala Recipe
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Cooking With Shan Foods
Preparing Indian food can be intimidating. It requires you to buy whole spices, roast them before each meal, and to understand which spices go well with each dish.Shan Foods has simplified the whole process! They've done all the hard work for us! They understand how busy our lives can get and want to make sure we still get to sit down to a warm, authentic meal every night.Head over to your local Indian grocery store and check out all of their options! Whether you're looking for a meat or simple veggie dish, Shan Foods is the way to go.
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You Mean The World To Me Printable Valentine's Day Cards
Printable "You Mean The World To Me," Valentine's Day cards- FREE printable Valentine's Day cards for kids!
Check out these printable Valentine's Day cards for a budget friendly craft your kids can bring to their classroom!
Printable Valentine's Day Cards
It's that time of the year again! Valentine's Day is just a few short weeks away which means it's the perfect time to start thinking about your kid's Valentine's Day cards! Will they go with a theme? Will they make their own? Will it mean a table full of scrap paper and glue mess when it's all done?My kids have always loved picking out their Valentine's Day cards! There are so many fun choices to pick from and they like to be unique.As a multicultural family, I'm always looking for ways to put a fun spin on holidays. We tend to blend cultures within our family for the holidays and sometimes it's just plain fun to put a multicultural twist on things.
You Mean The World To Me
Whether you are a multicultural family, travel enthusiast, or simple love the world you live in these cards are perfect for you!Today, I have a simple printable to make Valentine's Day preparation easy! All you have to do is pick which design you like, or both, then print them out!What can be more simple or fun this Valentine's Day?
If you liked this you'll love our list of fun DIY Valentine's Day cards!
5 Reasons You Should Read Aloud To Your Child
5 Reasons You To Read Aloud Your Child
Promotes Communication
Reading out loud promotes communication between you and your child. As you read, you're going to be talking about the story and more. It helps to open the doors of communication which then leads to your child improving in their communication with others.
Improves Their Receptive Skills
As you read to your child, their developing their receptive skills. It takes a lot of work for a child to sit down, listen, and understand what's happening in a story. As they practice this skill they will be able to do it more often and for longer periods of time.The more you read aloud to your child, you'll notice they start doing better in school and public settings where they're expected to listen and follow instructions.
Builds A Special Bond Between You And Your Child
It means the world to your child when they see you making time for them. They see that they're a priority and thrive on your quality time together. As you read to them, it won't be easy to get distracted by your phone or your to do list either. It helps set you both up for success!As a parent, we've heard it before... They grow up before you know it! It's true. They won't always want you to sit down and read to them. Cherish this time with your children and soak it all up.
Encourages An Active Imagination
While you read to your child they will be picturing the story in their head. They'll want to follow along as they picture what the main character looks like, what their house looks like, and what how dinner smells. Their imaginations will explode with possibilities!A child with an active imagination will dream big! They'll imagine how great their lives will be and do anything they can to get there.
Exposed To New Vocabulary
Reading new books to your children each day means they're exposed to new vocabulary. Every book will introduce them to words they haven't heard before and they'll be eager to learn more. Studies have shown children that have parents reading aloud to them at home have 40 percent more vocabulary than those who don't.
Are you having a hard time keeping your child engaged while you read? Try these techniques.
Stop Frequently Throughout The Story
Be sure to stop frequently through out the story. If you read on and on for an hour, chances are they tuned you out. Stopping often helps you to make sure they're still listening and find out what they think about the book.
Ask Them Questions
As you stop, ask them questions. Ask them what they think about the scene, or who their favorite character is etc. Asking them questions help them to verbally think through the scenes and they'll be more likely to ask you questions if they don't know.
Move Your Fingers As You Read
As your children learn how to read, it's important to put your finger under the words. They see you following along with your finger and associate the words you're saying with the words on the page.
Limit Distractions
Be sure to set up a good reading space. This space should have minimal distractions so your child can focus all of their attention on the story rather than the TV in the background.
"The more that you read, the more things you will know. The more that you learn, the more places you'll go."
-Dr. Seuss
Are you reading with your child every day? If so what are your tips?
Samosa Hand Pies Recipe
Are you looking for a quick and simple snack? You're in the right place! These samosa hand pies are delicious and simple to make!
The Perfect On The Go Snack
Over the last few years my day to day routine has become extremely chaotic. There are so many pieces to the puzzle throughout the day. I can't just pick up and go whenever I feel like it. Now, I have to plan out the whole day and decide on how many diapers I need, how many changes of clothes for the "uh-oh moments," and of course snacks.Snacks are one of the most important things... according to my three boys!If I don't bring a quick on the go snack, they end up "starving" and begging me to buy every snack they see.I'm sure those of you with kids in school, multiples like us, or working parents fully understand! The moment you pick them up they're hungry! They're looking to see what goodie you brought them.Or maybe you're trying to find a quick snack in between sports practices or ballet?
Simple Samosa Hand Pies
I've got you covered! I have the perfect on the go snack! You can whip up a delicious batch of Samosa Hand Pies! These little pockets of goodness are so easy to make and they're a fun twist on your every day meals.Our family is obsessed with samosas! They're traditionally served as an appetizer and look more like triangle pockets. It's also our go to appetizer every time we go out to an Indian restaurant with the kids! The only problem we ran into with traditional samosas is that they were a little tricky as an on the go snack.These little samosa hand pies are the perfect on the go meal! You can make them smaller like we did today or larger for a tasty lunch.The filling is what makes these little beauties so amazing. You can fill them up with meat and veggies or just veggies! Either way they're tasty!One of our favorite things to serve our Samosa Hand Pies with is cilantro chutney. YUM.
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What's your favorite on the go snack?
DIY Valentine's Day Cards For Boys
Celebrating Valentine's Day With My Little Boys
Growing up I always loved Valentine's Day. I loved being able to make a little basket for my cards and taking time to let all my friends know how much I love them.Not to mention, making my own Valentine's Day cards! Did you love making them as much as I did?!Now my boys are old enough to start enjoying this holiday. They even asked to make their own cards! I quickly starting putting together all of our craft supplies to see what we could come up with.I tried thinking about all the fun cards they could make. We decided to look for some inspiration. Here are a few of our favorite Valentine's Day cards perfect for little boys!
DIY Valentine's Day Cards For Boys
Printable Star Wars CardsLet's Build TogetherBlow Up My Heart CardYou're One In A Melon CardI'm Wild About YouI Am Bubbling With JoyYou Make My Heart RaceYou Make My Heart BurstYou Make Me GlowI'm Beary Happy You're In My ClassI'm So Happy You're In My SchoolLollipop CardsI Think You're A-Doh-AbleYou Make My Heart SoreYou Make My Heart SpringColor My WorldSuper Valentine's DayHave A Ball This Valentine's DayEmoji Valentine's CardsCrazy Straw Valentine's DayLight Saber Valentine's CardsOf All The Fish In The Sea